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September - October 2007

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Welcome to our winter edition of Cradle 2 Kindy’s newsletter.  Please remember you will only be able to click onto the newsletter through the link from your email page.  We do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used elsewhere or put to print.  See contact details below. 

My apologies to anyone who has been having problems with the website I have been changing server.

September - October 2007

What's in this issue:

This issue I would like to alert you to two health warnings, both was brought to my attention by clients and health workers regarding washing and clothing products for babies/children.  I will also cover the topic of sterilising and babies who are fussy drinkers. 

Thank you for your comments and suggestion, I hope you find something useful in this issue.

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Two Health Warnings

1. Baby Body Wash Products & Parabens

Parabens are the most commonly used preservatives in topical pharmaceutical preparations. They are also used in cosmetics, skin care products, medications and foods.

Parabens can be found in many of the main brand baby products and other products such as shampoos, soaps and cleansers and are known to cause an irritant dermatitis.  Recently they have been liked with some types of cancers.

For more information take a look at the following link:

 http://www.dermnetnz.org/dermatitis/parabens-allergy.html

The note at the bottom specifies the cancer caution.

2. Baby Clothing Products

Also just to alert you to a report on the toxic chemicals - Formaldehyde and Aromatic Amines which have been added to the garments being manufactured in China.  These chemicals are carcinogenic and are known to cause several medical problems including rashes, headaches and asthma.   These chemicals are to reduce the crinkles in natural fabrics such as cotton and wool and are found not only in adult clothing but those made for babies and children.  The advice given to help reduce these chemicals in our clothing is to wash them frequently before wearing them.  

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Sterilising Baby's Equipment

This is just a brief overview of why, when and methods of sterilising.  Today it is not so important to sterilise everything we use for a baby as long as they are thoroughly washed in hot soapy water or put through a clean dishwasher.  Dishwashers are known to go to such high temperatures that they sterilise while they wash.  Just make sure it is a clean dishwasher and that food doesn’t get trapped in the baby’s items. 

If you choose to sterilise baby’s equipment, you may do so up to the age of 3-6 months. After this, baby’s immune system has developed enough to fight off most common bugs.  In fact, it is wise to allow baby to build up their immune system by coming into contact with everyday household bugs which they would normally do, such as playing on their mat, crawling around on the floor and exploring their environment.

If you do wish to sterilise, here are some tips for sterilising that may help you.

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Cleaning equipment

Before sterilising, make sure you have thoroughly rinsed and washed all equipment in hot soapy water by using a bottle brush where necessary. 

What to sterilise? It is advisable to sterilise all equipment and containers used to store and prepare milk until baby is at least nine months old. Thereafter, a hot soapy wash or hot wash cycle in a dishwasher is sufficient. 

Methods of sterilising:

Boiling - It is advisable to put a timer on to remind you when to turn off the stove when sterilising is finished. Place all items, covered with water, in a large covered saucepan. Bring to the boil and boil for 5 minutes. Allow it to cool before removing items.

Steam - Commercial sterilisers automatically turn themselves off.  All you need to do is fill them with your cleaned items, put in the required amount of water and turn them on. It is also advisable to clean your sterilising unit at least once a week to remove the build up of residue from the water used. This can be done in various ways, e.g. use one third white vinegar to two thirds water. Turn on the steamer as normal and allow it to go through a normal steam cycle, empty the fluid out and you are ready to use as normal. Read cleaning instructions on your steamer before trying this method.

Microwave Steamer - Again add the required amount of water to your cleaned items and follow the instructions of the manufacturer. Clean the steamer with hot soapy water once or twice a week depending on its usage. 

Quick single item steam - put item into half a cup of water, cover and place in the microwave on high for five minutes.

Chemical - Make up the anti-bacterial solution (from tablet or liquid form) to the manufacturer’s specifications. Do not put metal into the solution as it will rust. Make sure that the glass or plastic items are totally submerged, without any trapped air bubbles for a minimum of one hour before using. It is possible to leave items in the solution until they are needed but anything added will require all to be sterilised for another hour. Therefore it would be advisable to take out all the items when clean and store them as described below. This solution will need to be discarded after 24 hours, and the container and any unused items thoroughly scrubbed with warm, soapy water before refilling. The discarded solution if poured over your dish cloths will leave them smelling fresh and clean. Both the concentrate and made-up-solution must be stored away from children and direct sunlight.

Storage:

Store all sterilised items not in immediate use in a clean container or wrap in cling wrap which reduces contamination. Store all covered items in the fridge to minimise bacterial growth. Any sterilised item if unused after 24 hours will need to be sterilised again before use.

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Milk refusal

Breast or bottle refusal can be a distressing occurrence for both mother and baby.

Often the baby has previously fed happily, then for some reason, begins to refuse a feed.  Causes may be apparent such as: an alert baby being easily distracted, over-feeding or force-feeding, gastric reflux, illness in the infant or if breastfeeding, oral or nipple thrush, mastitis, medications and hormonal changes (e.g. ovulation, menstruation), or mother becoming ill.  There may also be issues relating to mother’s milk supply, such as: low supply, or slow let-down reflex (thus baby becomes frustrated), or the milk flowing too quickly and baby needs a breather.

Usually, after a few days the baby begins feeding again as though there had never been a problem. If the cause can be located it can be treated, e.g. thrush, gastric reflux.

I have seen older babies who literally refuse their feeds even after only having 30-50 mls or 5 -10 mins on the breast.  These babies usually come off crying and refuse further attempts to get them to feed. This is very stressful for mums and bubs.  Many of these babies have a degree of reflux and even though they may be on medication, the medication is not enough to prevent discomfort while feeding.  Adjusting their medication will improve baby’s feeding so have a chat to your doctor.  If the situation is ignored it usually becomes worse. 

It is also important not to feed baby too soon after the last feed as she will not feed well and you will only be setting up a bad habit of snack feeding and cat napping. Or if baby has reflux, it may be adding fuel to the fire, increasing the stomach content which aggravates the heart burn.

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Breastfeeding

If you feel baby is not getting enough and are giving her a supplementary or top up feed from a bottle, this may eventually cause your milk supply to dwindle, unless you are expressing to stimulate your breast after every day-time feed.  If you are expressing, do not over-express.  Five to seven minutes is sufficient but should be done regularly to have any effect.  Remember you are not expressing to store milk.  If your supply is low you may not be able to express any milk.  Expressing is to stimulate the breast to make more. 

If you have a good supply in the mornings I suggest you express the excess to give as a top up in the afternoons when you suspect you supply is lower.  You will also need to express after feeds just till your supply increases.

Be aware that if you introduce a bottle on a regular basis, your baby may refuse the breast totally as drinking from a bottle requires less effort than the breast.

If mother’s milk supply is suspected to be low in comparison to the demands of her growing baby, measures to increase production can be put into action and after a couple of weeks, the infant is often contentedly sucking away as before.

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Some suggestions to encourage a fussy milk feeder:

If you persist in trying to make a baby feed when she adamantly refuses to do so, the infant just becomes more upset.  Try distracting them for five to ten minutes with a bit of tummy time and try again.  If she continues to refuse, it is most likely she has either had sufficient or there is a greater problem such as reflux.

If you are breastfeeding, another possible suggestion is for mother and baby to get into a warm bath together and after baby has relaxed, she is slowly brought up to the breast.  Usually such a baby enjoys the skin-to-skin contact and will begin to suck well.

If your child has started solids, here is a recipe you may like to try to encourage bub to increase their dairy intake.  Formula may be used to substitute the milk.

Yoghurt or milk jelly

1 ½ tablespoons of unflavoured gelatine

½ cup (125 mls) of cool water

¾ cup (185 mls) milk or 1 cup (250 mls) plain yoghurt – instead of milk

  • In a small saucepan sprinkle gelatine over cool water.
  • Stir and heat through.
  • Remove from the heat and stir in milk or yoghurt.
  • Whisk with an electric beater until fluffy.
  • Transfer to a small glass dish and refrigerate till set.

Another idea is to make milk or yoghurt iceblocks on a plastic baby spoon.

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Parents Testimonies and Comments

Alison’s comments

Our parenting coach was friendly, approachable, knowledgeable and a good listener.  It was such a help seeing the settling techniques in real life – so much different than reading them in a book.  We now feel confident that we can continue aiming for this routine but know that some days we won’t achieve it but that’s okay too.  Our second baby was diagnosed with reflux at 4 weeks of age. This was a very different experience to our first child and we were confused and exhausted. Our coach provided valuable practical help, advice and guidance to put us on track with dealing with a reflux baby. Our little boy is now far happier and so are Mum and Dad.

Tania’s story

Adopting Cradle 2 Kindy’s routine around feeding and sleeping brought us instant and spectacular results.  As first time parents it was extremely reassuring to see the routine suited both us and our baby.  It brought order to what had felt like chaos and on many occasions we needed to wake our baby for his feeds.  Our level of confidence increased greatly as a result of the time we spent with our coach and the tools she gave us.  Our baby is happier and we are most definitely happier parents.

Ray’s comments and story

I found the service given to be of a high standard.  Our coach was punctual and very professional and has a wealth of knowledge and experience. I felt that I learnt a number of things and had the opportunity to brush up on my skills.  I gained vital confidence and knowledge during the visit. 

We were assisted in weaning my 3 month baby girl, something I could not have done without her help.  As well as achieving this I gained both knowledge and confidence with settling my baby which has allowed me to establish very good sleeping and eating routines.  Our parenting coach is very personable and has a good approach with dealing with difficult situations.  I liked her form and practical manner and I am very happy with the outcome of her assistance for the two days she was here.  I wish I had had this contact number when I had my first child- it would have made my life a lot more pleasurable! 

See other testimonials related to the headings throughout the web site or  read through those on our Mothercraft Home Service web site, through the link on our articles page.


See all other Parenting Articles from our Archives

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

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March - April 2007

Thursday, March 01, 2007

Welcome to our second newsletter for 2007.  Thank you to everyone who has sent in their comments and gave suggestions on our first edition.  Please continue to let your friends and family know by forwarding our email letter with this link as newsletters will no longer be posted on the web site. 

Please remember you will be able to click onto other pages on the site but only onto the newsletter through the link from your email page  I hope you are enjoying our new web site.  We do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used else where or put to print.  See contact details below. (photo by BIG Australia)

 

March - April 2007

What's in this issue:

Due to the increasing demand for information, I have continued the series on bottle feeding and in this issue,  we cover topics for those who may be considering weaning or have already experienced some of the following complications.

Due to many requests about infant learning.  I have also asked Dr Titzer to provide us with more research on this topic.

Thank you to all of you who have comments on our new look.  Your comments and suggestions have been noted.  I hope you enjoy this edition.

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Some Complications with Formula Feeding

Not all babies react to formula - here are some of the common complaints and possible solutions.

Constipation

It is a myth to say that breastfed babies do not get constipated.  I was once told by a peadiatric gastroenterologist that what went in must come out within 24 hours.  Some breastfed babies have been known to go ten days before opening their bowels this can be most uncomfortable for a baby.  Formula fed babies also need to open their bowels at least once a day. 

If your baby becomes constipated, that is anything that is backed up, or not a soft paste, introduce 20-30 mls of cooled boiled water 20 minutes after the feed.  If this doesn't seem to improve the situation within 24 hours, you may need to try diluted prune juice.  Do not add sugar to the feed or dilute the formula as this is detrimental to baby’s health.  If it persists, then I suggest changing formula.  If baby has been constipated for some days, massage his tummy gently clockwise and press his knees into his tummy, this may help move things along.  If baby continues to be constipated, seek medical advice.

Diarrhea

Unlike breastfed babies, bottle fed babies' bowel movements are not loose but a soft formed paste with the consistency of toothpaste.  If it is firm like play-dough, your baby is constipated.  You do not want to leave it as it may get worse and becoming like small pellets.

If baby has very loose watery stools, your baby is very likely to have either a lactose or milk intolerance. Try a lactose free or low allergy formula.

Skin rashes

Rashes are often caused by milk intolerances or adjusting to the formula. Stick to the formula you have chosen for a few more days.  If things don’t improve, switch to a different brand or a low allergy formula.  If baby has a fine, rough feeling rash, and at certain times of the day is very unsettled, this rash may be an indication of acidic reflux.

Unsettled, irritable baby

If a newborn becomes unsettled, it may be due to his system adjusting to formula. Before changing to a new formula, try the sleep and settling techniques and a daily routine as described in the flyer on newborn care.  If baby continues to be unsettled, try a low allergy formula.

If you have just up graded to the next age-appropriate formula and baby becomes unsettled, go back to the one she was comfortable with until baby has settled down.   Then try the new formula again after awhile.

Crusty eyebrows

This may sometimes indicate lactose intolerance. Lactose intolerant babies will also have very loose bowels. Try using Sorbolene or something similar on the eyebrows.  If the crustiness persists and baby is unsettled, try changing to a lactose free formula.

Cow’s milk intolerance

Milk intolerances are on the rise but is still very uncommon. They are often identified through frothy, loose or mucus in the bowel motions, constipation, rashes and an irritable baby. If there is a history of milk intolerance in the family, it is suggested that you start on a low allergy formula such as Nan HA or S26 HA.

I hope this will help some of you who may have babies with these problems.

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Infant learning - reading doesn't teach how to read

In the last year, there were several TV news broadcasts about Your Baby Can Read in Australia and around the world which showed toddlers and preschoolers reading. All these children learned to read as babies watching our Your Baby Can Read DVDs.  Dr Titzer was also featured with different babies and toddlers reading in Australia and the US.  Many babies and toddlers featured read beautifully during these stories while the TV cameras were rolling.  One of these stories was of a 21-month-old baby who read very well.  To all those who have purchased a set of DVD’s and books, please let me know how your child is doing as the next time Dr. Titzer is on TV here in Australia, your child could be included. As many of you know, I have dyslexic problems which I believe could have been prevented if only this system was available when I was a child.  I think it is wonderful watching these babies and toddlers read.<

Allow me to share with you over the next couple of months some of Dr. Titzer’s research on the benefits of teaching your baby to read. 

  • Reading to your child does not teach reading
  • A baby’s ability to follow an adult’s gaze influences the child’s later vocabulary
  • Are “educational” videos for babies really educational?

New Study Shows that Reading to a Child Doesn't Teach Reading

When a parent is reading to a child, the average preschooler spends about five seconds focused on looking at the text.  The rest of the time was spent looking at the pictures. This recent study in Psychological Science shows that reading to a child does not teach the child to read. The authors of the study said that parents should not expect that reading to their children will teach them to read unless the child is looking at the text.  They recommended that parents show their children text while reading. This study made the front-page of newspapers in Canada in late 2005 and it was featured on TV news programs.

How You Can Use this Study to Help Your Child Learn to Read

I recommend two types of reading to children – one to teach reading and one where you simply read for the love or joy of reading and not trying to teach reading. It is easy to turn the typical “read to the child” experience into a fun “learning to read” experience once your child learns to read a few dozen words. [More info. on this topic is available on the Parent Segment of the Your Baby Can Read DVDs.]

Some Reasons to Teach Reading Earlier:

  • The most natural time to learn language is early in life.
  • Reading is the most important skill a child ever learns.
  • More than 90% of a child’s brain is developed by age five.
  • Longitudinal studies show that children who are taught to read earlier read better than same IQ, same-socioeconomic status children who are taught later.
  • It's easier to learn the patterns of language early in life.
  • Reading is fun for babies and toddlers.
  • Reading helps children succeed in school and in life.
  • The window of opportunity for learning language is short.
  • Baby brains develop faster than older children's brains.
  • Early readers have higher self-esteem.
  • Teaching reading earlier may prevent most reading problems according to a national panel of reading specialists.
  • It's possible the brain will develop more efficiently early in life for reading.
  • Early readers stay ahead of children who are taught later.
  • The current methods and ages are not working for millions of children.
  • Early readers are more likely to do well in school and life.

If you are interested in purchasing a set of DVD’s please email your details to cradle2kindy@optusnet.com.au  For more information see The importance of stories, songs and rhymes for children of all ages

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Parents Testimonies and Comments

Danielle’s Testimony

I wish I had contacted Cradle 2 Kindy sooner rather than when I was at my wit’s end!  It was important to me to receive some re-education in my baby’s own home environment rather than having to go to a day stay /residential which usually involves a bit of a wait.  Our parenting coach could identify immediately where I needed help and came armed with experience and written information to get us back on track.  More importantly she provided some emotional support and within a few hours, mother and baby were back on track!  I will certainly be referring this service to others.

Tanya’s Story

My baby was six months old and I did not have her in a proper sleeping or eating routine.   For six months I had been exhausted and didn't have more than three hours blocks of sleep a night.  Before our coach had arrived I was worried she would allow my baby to scream and be unsettled all night long.  This was not the case.  Our Parenting Coach stayed overnight and explained what I was doing wrong and taught us how we could change our babies sleep pattern.  With the techniques taught us during this time our baby learnt to self settle very quickly.  Since then she puts herself to sleep within seconds. 

I had been very anxious to be left without our coaches support but she knew the techniques and routine would work and had total confidence in getting results.  Because our coach was very calm and confident too am confident that I can continue the routine - it showed me that I can improve the situation - by me being in control and not my baby.

I have been sleeping nine hours straight since.  I'm no longer put off having a second child and I definitely will call our Parenting Coach to help us get the second child straight from the beginning.  All my questions were answered and even now I have been assisted through phone calls. 

Kate’s comments

Our parenting coach is an absolute wonderful mothercraft nurse with a great sense of humour about babies and mothering and she also possesses an incredible care and understanding in her practice.  We could not have gotten such a quick response from our daughter without her help.  She is a God-send!!

Thank you to all the parents who have returned their evaluation forms with their comments and testimonies. If others would like your story or comments (a photo may be included) in our newsletter, please post your evaluation form or email your testimonial (with photo - optional) to info@cradle2kindy.com.au

See other testimonials related to the headings throughout the Cradle 2 Kindy website or read through those on www.babycareforcryingbabies.com.au


See read other articles on parenting look at Articles from our Archives

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

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