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Summer has finally caught up with us here in Sydney hopefully leaving behind the flooding rain and thunder storms. I have certainly enjoyed the sunny warm/hot days as a friend has been visiting from Spain.  My second mobile phone continued to play up till it too died! So now I am on my third phone! I'm praying this one will be hassle free for many years.  I still recommend you keep trying to call me if you are unable to get through to me when you call. The best times to call is between 12 and 6pm.  

I'm glad many of you have found our articles on Childcare and School Preparations and The pros and cons of child care and last months article on  Packing Lunch helpful. This year I'm going to revise some of our popular topics. See This Month's Article for the latest review.

If you would like to read about the services Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions provide please click on the following links Newborn Care, Baby Care and Toddler & Child, Respite for Parents, a Night Nurse or a Professional Babysitter we also provide Gift Vouchers for many of these services.

Click the following to read more information about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions What happens at a coaching session.

For more information or to make a booking call Sally on: 0409 721 145.

Your feedback is invaluable

Thank you once again for all your feedback regarding our newsletter and articles. Please let me know if there is a topic you would like us to write about.

If you are a client or a customer we would also appreciate your feedback on our service and products. Clients may log into our member's area and fill out the Evaluation Form or email your comments through our Contact Us page. We would love to share your testimonials, comments and stories as they encourage other parents who may be in a similar situation.

Thank you.

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

This Month's Article

This month I'd like to go back and look at some topics that have been popular.  This article may be helpful to breastfeeding mothers as well as toddlers who are bitting.  Causes, Prevention and Solutions for a Child who Bites "Biting may occur at any age from breastfeeding infants to frustrated toddlers.   There are many reasons for biting, here are some helpful hints on how to deal with biting from breast feeding through to toddlers".  To read more please follow the above link.

Parents Testimonies

Nadine's Comments

C2K parenting coach gives you the parent confidence and strength to teach your child no matter how difficult the issue maybe that you are faced with. Its all about teaching the parent the right way to teach your child. Once you have this confirmed from a parenting coach you are well on your way to managing your child behaviour.

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange a visit please don't hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All written material on the website or in our emails has a copyright. The use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions 

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

 

 

Welcome to Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions August newsletter.  I hope you have been enjoying our family recipes.  Thanks for the feed back on our last month’s recipe Hungarian Pasta I'm glad you enjoyed it. This month we are going with a sweet dish, Chocolate Brownies.  

Please keep your recipes coming.

A Note from the Editor

With our winter weather upon us please remember to rug your babies and toddlers up when going out doors.  If you are concerned about how much to dress your children in please read our article on Changing Seasons and how it Effects your Child's Temperature and our link with our Clothing Guide chart.

Baby’s room should be heated where possible as dooners and loose bedding are not safe. All bedding should be tucked in firmly under the mattress. If your baby is sleeping in a wrap you can line a larger wrap with a shorter, flannelette to make it warmer.

Sleeping bags are a great transition from a baby wrap. Although we encourage parents to wrap babies till around 7-10 month to assists with sleep, we also suggest when using a sleeping bag to continue to use a top sheet as part of babies sleep association. This will help when moving them from a cot to a bed.

Helpful links: How and When to Wrap Your Baby and Transitioning out of a baby wrap.

If you would like to read about the services Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions provide please click on the following links Newborn Care, Baby Care and Toddler & Child, Respite for Parents, a Night Nurse or a Professional Babysitter we also provide Gift Vouchers for many of these services.  For more information or to make a booking call Sally on: 0409 721 145.

Click here to read more about What happens at a coaching session.

Topic of Interest

As mentioned in our last newsletter over the next few editions I am looking at some of the common poisons and hazards found in our cupboards. These hazards are often disguised in familiar household products used around most homes such as parabens, talc, mineral oils and formaldehyde.
 
Last month we looked at parabens, this month I would like to take a closer look at talc.

Talc Products

Talc is another unknown toxin commonly used on babies.  It can also be found in a wide variety of products such as body powder, garden pesticides, flea and tick powders and in smaller quantities in products such as deodorants, antacids, chalk, food processing. Where the greatest concern is, is in the products where talc is the main ingredient. This is where it poses the most serious health risk. These are in baby powder and perfumed body powder.

Talc is toxic and has been known to cause lung cancer and other respiratory illnesses and can for this reason endanger baby’s lungs.  Medical records have shown that as early as the 1980s several thousand infants each year died or became seriously ill following accidental inhalation of baby powder. Nowadays many brands of baby power have replaced talc with cornflour.

Talc has also been known to cause ovarian cancer in women who regularly use talc in their underwear or on sanitary pads. Some scientific studies have found talc to be closely related to asbestos.

Note: When choosing products for you or your baby read the contents first.

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's Happening?

C2K Parenting e-books

We continue to receive positive feedback on our e-books which are available online through Our Shop Publications. These are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child (74 pages).

C2K Forum

Please take advantage of our Forums to chat with other parents. This is a great place to support each other in the very important role of parenting.

If you have a product that you no longer require and would like to pass it on to another family please feel free to post these on our forum too.

C2K Gift Vouchers

Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions Gift Vouchers can be ordered for special occasions such as a baby shower, to welcome the new baby home, Brit Milah assistance, or just to give parents a night off.

Take a look at the choices we are offering and choose the voucher that best suits the occasion.

C2K Shop 

Other gift ideas for a family with a new baby can be chosen from Our Shop or select one of our Gift Ideas which is delivered in a decorative box. You can also make up your own gift ideas package by selecting items from the range of products in Our Shop. These gifts can be put together for you in a decorative box or gift wrapped.

Choose from our large range of extra large baby wraps which are cheaper and larger than our competitors. We also have our renowned Sleep CD - Sleep Solutions Sounds For Sleeping and a choice of e-books Publications.

Our products are not only for parents with newborns we also provide educational children's DVD's and books from the Your Baby Can Read series.

C2K Pages of Interest

There are many pages on our website that may be of interest or help to parents. Some of these are our Links & Contacts page, FAQ, and our Articles page.  Please let us know if you have any suggestions so that we can add them to these pages.

Check out the Product Review page if you are considering buying something for a child.  This page is specifically designed to assist you.  Parents and health professions have provided helpful comments on a variety of products for children from birth to five years old, including great books for parents. Don't forget to let us know of other products you have found useful so we can add them to the list.

Have you read through our Case Studies and Testimonials?  Both these pages cover a range of topics from newborn care to toddler and child behavioural concerns.  Testimonials touch on issues such as poor feeding, breastfeeding, reflux, twin management and sleep issues including day cat-nappers and night wakers and a variety of behavioural issues.

If you would like to add your comments please email me via our Contact Us page

This Month's Article

This month I'd like to take a look at 'Feeding and Speech Development'. "Babies are all very different and develop at different stages; this includes their ability to learn how to take solids and to speak. Some factors that may contribute to oral and speech development can be their environment, birth order, being a twin, their personality or have parents or caregivers speak to them in more than one language. Even their parent’s skills and abilities could affect not only their ability to take solids but also the development of their speech...” ... click on the link above to read more.

To view our latest Recipes for Kids on this link.

Parents Testimonies

Carla's Story

My youngest of 3 children was catnapping during the day but sleeping well at night till recently when she began to wake frequently at night too. I was becoming more and more sleep deprived myself. I need my sleep to tend to the everyday demands of our older children. I heard about Cradle 2 Kindy through a friend and gave them a call. Our coach took me through what my baby should be doing for her age and how we were to accomplish our new routine which encouraged our baby girl to sleep longer both day and night.  

Now our new routine and all is going well, she is loving the routine and she has been so much easier to put to sleep. I now have time not only for my older children but to read other peoples comments and article on the Cradle 2 Kindy website. The family is functioning much better in just 2 days and I couldn't be happier with her progress. She has been having tummy time and we are getting loads more smiles and happy noises from her.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

Wow! What a way to start 2011!  Cradle 2 Kindy would like to offer our condolences to all those who have suffered in the floods and bushfires.  Our prayers are with you.

Topics of interest:

I'm please most of you have found the topics of our articles interesting.  It seems back to school is a very popular topic at the moment so I would like to continue along these line with this month’s article.  I am also including for your reference the previous articles Preparing for Childcare or School and our article by mother and primary school teacher, Lee Madigan. Childcare and School Preparations as a refresher.  C2K would like to wish all first time attendances all the very best for the year of leaning ahead

A Note from the Editor

First of all my apologise for the second January newsletter which miraculously went out on its own accord mid Jan.  I was tidying up the archives and off it went.  Sometimes I'm totally confused at how these gadgets work.  I'm sure they have a mind of their own.

The subject I would like to address in this month newsletter affects many children and their parents.  That topic is colic and reflux.  Information on these topics can be discussed during a consultation on Newborn Care, Baby Care or our Toddler & Child visitation.

Reflux

As a mothercraft nurse I visit many homes with unsettled babies.  Parents pacing the floor, pulling their hair out having tired every remedy and potions family and friends have suggested with little or no improvement.

There may be several reasons why a baby is unsettled one of which may be what is commonly called 'colic'.  What is ‘colic’?  Health professionals today believe that colic is in fact 'silent reflux'.   Gastro-oesophageal reflux (GOR) is common in babies and is due to an immature sphincter muscle between the stomach and the oesophagus.

Unfortunately in many babies ‘silent reflux’ (where a baby doesn’t vomit) often goes undiagnosed as it is still been treated as colic or in some cases parents believe that it is normal for babies to have an unsettled period.  If untreated reflux can cause complications such as increased risk of SIDS, ear and respiratory infections, teeth decay, ulcerated oesophagus.  Please note not all unsettle babies have reflux.

Typical symptoms of a child with GOR are:
Birth to 9 months - frequent unsettled periods (often known as the witching or arsenic hour) followed by long catch up sleeps.
3-9 months - a baby who struggles to feed well often coming off the breast/bottle crying and not finishing their feeding.
A toddler or child - who has feeding problems – fussy, selective, small eater or conversely overeats to alleviate discomfort.

For more symptoms please read our article Irritable Baby Syndrome - colic/reflux

For those who have or suspect they may have a child with GOR and are looking for practically tips to assist them through this difficult period, Cradle 2 Kindy offers not only invaluable suggestions but ongoing support.

A well informed mother is less likely to be stressed and is therefore better able to cope with the demands of her child.
 
Please don't hesitate to call us if you are having problems or would like a visit.  If you would like to know more please read our Newborn Care, Baby Care and Toddler & Child information or ring Sally on 0409 721 145.

Sarah's Story:

I cannot thank Cradle 2 Kindy enough. Their service complete changed our little girl for the better. She had reflux and was constantly in pain and would not sleep. She was very hard to be around and especially to see her crying and screaming in pain all the time. Our parenting coach gave us suggestions on how to administer the medication effectively and also assisted me with sleep techniques and settling aids. These things were just amazing.  We now have a happy baby that smiles and giggles and best of all sleeps!!  Nothing was ever a problem for our coach.  I rang her so so many times and she was always willing to help. I highly recommend this service - there is nothing to lose and so much to gain.

If you would like to know more about What happens at a coaching session click on this link. Cradle 2 Kindy also provides Gift Voucher and Respite for Parents a Night Nurses or a Professional Babysitter giving parents an opportunity to have time off.

Your feedback is invaluable

Thank you to everyone who have given me feedback on our newsletters and articles.  Please keep your comments and suggestions coming. 

If you are a client or a customer we would also appreciate your feedback on our service and products.  Clients may log into our member's area and fill out the Evaluation Form. We would love to share your testimonials, comments and stories as they encourage other parents who may be in a similar situation.

Thank you.

Once again our prayers are with those who have suffered in the floods and bushfires. I pray the rest of 2011 be full of present surprises.

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's Happening?

I have added our latest article to our web page: Parenting Articles from our Archives.  There are lots titles under a variety of heading so I’m sure you will find a topic that might interest you.  We have two new headings: Articles about Colic & Reflux and Articles on Parenting which includes several stories written by fathers.

Franchising

Calling all NSW rural mothers who are interested with working with parents who have babies and young children.  We still have some openings for the right women to join our franchise team in rural NSW and in particular those close to or in; Orange or Bathurst area, Newcastle and Wollongong. If you, or anyone you know, is interested in helping parents with children from birth to five years old, here is a fantastic opportunity to do so.  Read more at Franchises Available or on the News page.

C2K Parenting e-books

We continue to receive positive feedback on our e-books which are available online through Our Shop Publications.  These are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child (74 pages).

C2K Forum

Please take advantage of our Forums to chat with other parents. This is a great place to support each other in the very important role of parenting.  Since posting my comment on the forum for the pranksters I’m pleased to report they have ceased their pranks.

If you have a product that you no longer require and would like to pass it on to another family please feel free to post it on our forum.

C2K Gift Vouchers

Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions Gift Vouchers can be ordered for special occasions such as a baby shower, to welcome the new baby home, Brit Milah or just to give parents a night off. 

Take a look at the choices we are offering and choose the voucher that best suit the occasion.

C2K Shop 

Other gift ideas for a family with a new baby can be chosen from Our Shop or select one of our Gift Ideas which is delivered in a decorative box.  You can also make up your own gift ideas package by selecting items from the range of products in Our Shop. These gifts can be put together for you in a decorative box or gift wrapped. Choose from our large range of infamously large baby wraps which are cheaper and larger than our competitors. We also have our renowned Sleep CD - Sleep Solutions Sounds For Sleeping, a choice of e-books Publications. You can also select to gift wrap your items.

Our products are not only for parents with newborns we also provide educational children’s DVD’s and books from the Your Baby Can Read series. 

C2K Pages of Interest

There are many pages on our website that may be of interest or help to parents two of these are our Links & Contacts page and our Product Review page.  Please let us know if you have any suggestions so that we can add to these pages. 

Check out the Products Review page before you make a purchase as it may help you make your decision on the item you are about to buy.  This page gives helpful comments on various products for children from birth to five years old including great books for parents.  Don't forget to let us know of any products you have found useful so we can add them to the list.

Have you read through our Case Studies?  We have many topics from newborn care, sleep issues ranging from newborns to young children, day cat-nappers to night wakers and a variety of behavioural issues.

This Month's Article

Continuing on with our back to school theme, I'd like to take a look at how important little feet are.  Starting with strengthening your baby's toes for walking to tips on fitting shoes.  This month's article is titled 'Foot Care in Children'. "To achieve healthy feet good foot care should start young while feet are still growing"... click on the link to read more.

Parents Testimonies

Marie's Testimonial

I rang Cradle 2 Kindy when my mental health was at its lowest after having a 6 month old that had never slept for more than 20 minutes, day or night. Our coach was a life saver, literally. Firstly I was so impressed that she could come at such short notice.  She diagnosed reflux and assisted in a routine to help manage the reflux and to have my little one self-settle. From that first night our now 7 month old has slept through the night. My husband was originally unhappy with my decision to have someone come as he could not see how they could make a difference in such a short time.

However he is now telling everyone how it was the best money we have ever spent and he wished we had done it earlier. So thank you Cradle 2 Kindy, you have restored my sanity, given me a new life as the happy person I used to be.  It has been over 4 weeks now and everything is going wonderfully. We are all getting sleep and are a much happier family.

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange another visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

Disclaimer: Information on our website is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

For more information on similar parenting topics you may like take a look at our e-books Publications on this link.
All information on this website have a copyright.  The use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Spring is now upon us so let's make the most of our lovely sunny days and cool nights before the heat sets in.  I hope you will enjoy this edition of our Cradle 2 Kindy newsletter.  Happy reading! 

A Note from the Editor

My apologies for the 'missing link' in the last newsletter.  If you do notice any glitches or errors in the newsletter or on the website please let me know so that I can amend them immediately. 

To continue bringing your attention the services we at Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions provide, I would like to highlight Newborn Care in this issue.

Newborn Baby Care

It is often very intimidating coming home after spending time in hospital where professional assistance is just a buzzer away. Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions can also be just a phone call away.   This service provides a home visit with a minimum of 3 hours (which may be extended if needed), two weeks of phone assistance, our e-book with tips for parents with babies 0-3 months old and 4 follow up emails to keep you on track. 

Those who have experienced our parenting service have continued to recommend it to their friends.  Why? Because there's nothing out there quite like it.  We provide you with your very own parenting coach who can take you through from your arrival home till your child is five years old! 

The topics covered are - parent support, breastfeeding, how to prevent sleep issues - cat napping and snacking, understanding sleep needs, newborn care, settling techniques for newborns, when and how to establish a routine, calming an crying baby, colic/reflux management, assistance with multiple births - twins and triplets.   We also provide handouts and charts on age appropriate needs for baby.

Testimonial:  After coming home from hospital, my husband and I were worried we were patting our son to sleep.  Whilst this was effective, we were worried in 7 months time we would still be doing the same thing. C2K was recommended to me by a work colleague.  The same day I called, our coach was at my house 6 hours later providing my husband and I with invaluable advice.  I would recommend Cradle 2 Kindy's service to any new parents wanting to establish good sleep / feeding routines for newborns.  Kerri Manly, NSW

“Cradle 2 Kindy provided us with a parenting coach who gave both myself and my partner the confidence to settle a newborn, even though it was our second baby, we had a lot to learn. Our coach was a great help and would recommend Cradle 2 Kindy services to any new or old parents.” Wendy - Newtown, NSW 

If you know anyone with a baby who you think may benefit from a visit from Cradle 2 Kindy please feel free to forward our contact details.  On the other hand you may like to give them a Gift Voucher for Newborn Care visit.

Parenting e-books

Our e-books available online through our Publications are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child (74 pages).

E-book testimonial: "I would just like to thank you for your great e-books which had been a wonderful asset to me and my husband.  We have an 11 month old who has always been a handful.  We put some of your techniques and advice into practice about 5 weeks ago and have seen a dramatic change in his behaviour.   He has begun to feed himself and is generally much better behaved both during mealtimes and during the day.   I must say our house is more like a home now with a happy baby which means a happy mummy and daddy.  We are certainly a much more relaxed family.  I will definitely be purchasing the Toddler and Child e-book soon.  Thanks.  Isabelle"

We would love to hear from others who have found our e-books or any of our products helpful. Please email me via our Contact Us page

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's New?

We continue to receive inquiries from rural and interstate parents thanks to you spreading the word about our Correspondence Consultation service, testimonials and Case Studies.  We now supporting parents in Tokyo, Japan.  Sally also had another trip north this time past Newcastle to assist with another two year olds bedtime routine.  She does enjoy her breaks from the big smoke. 

Thanks again to everyone for passing on our contact details to friends and family.

Don't forget we can also assist you friends or family through Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions Gift Vouchers. This may be for a baby shower, to welcome the new baby home or just to give parents a night off.  Take a look at the choices we are offering and choose the Voucher that best suit the occasion.

This Month's Article

Our guest writer this month is Elizabeth Carter, registered psychologist and owner of Bravo Communication. Her article is titled Reflecting on Motherhood.  "Some years ago, on meeting my 2 daughters, a friend said “You’re so lucky, you’re girls are lovely.  They are so friendly and polite.”  I said “Thank you” feeling the pride and joy that goes with such a moment.  Later, on reflection however, I thought to myself, “What did luck have to do with it?”   I’m not lucky, it was hard work and I made a lot of sacrifices." ..... click here to read the full story Reflecting on Motherhood. 

Continuing on last month's topic we now take a look at  look at Phobias, Fears and Anxiety in Young Children and next month I will look at tips to help your children overcome their fears

"Anxiety disorders are very common.  One in four people will experience an anxiety disorder at some stage in their lives.  We all feel anxious at times but some people are unable to control their anxiety it becomes so overwhelming that it affects their everyday activities making it difficult for them to cope". ..... click here to read the full story on Phobias, Fears and Anxiety in Young Children.

Parents Testimonies

Nadine's Testimonial

"I called Cradle 2 Kindy when my baby was around 6 months old. She had been diagnosed as having reflux and was having extremely disturbed day sleeps. She was very irritable and the medicine she had been prescribed seemed to have little effect on alleviating her distress. She was also waking up several times a night, which was very exhausting for all of us. Our Cradle 2 Kindy consultant came around and stayed 2 nights, teaching us how to settle her when she woke. The second night she didn't wake at all and after that she stopped waking during the night at all, unless she was unwell. We were given advice on the appropriate measures to take to control of her reflux - which worked wonders. She is now 16 months old and doing great. I cannot recommend Cradle 2 Kindy highly enough and am so grateful for the wonderful help and support our Cradle 2 Kindy consultant gave us."   Mosman NSW

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange another visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

Welcome to our August edition of Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions newsletter. I hope you will find something of interest in this edition. 

A Note from the Editor

I wonder how many of you were able to attend the Starlight Foundation ball.  Thank you to all those who did find time to attend.  It certainly is a worthy cause.

In our June newsletter I brought to your attention the services we at Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions services provide.  Over then next few issues I would like to highlight some of these services.  In this issue I would like to bring to your attention our Nursery Preparations. 

Nursery Preparations

This two hour visit is an excellent pre baby-shower gift for any parents to be. Why pre-baby-shower? Getting a professionals point of view on appropriate brands and products you and your baby may requirement will help you make your wish list and may help you avoid buying unnecessary items which you may need to return later.

Both parents will benefit from this professional visit as we cover a variety of topics such as the safety standards for baby products, what products are and are not necessarily needed for baby, mother and the nursery.

These topics cover - clothing, bedding, nursery equipment and furniture, bath, feeding and medical needs, play ideas, car and home fittings, prams, safety around the home and many more ideas for baby, nursery and mother. Hand outs and a nursery check list is also provided. We also provide a handy list of items, for both parents, of things they may need for the birth and during mum's stay in hospital.

Testimonial:  Unfortunately we didn’t know about this service till after the baby shower even so the information we received was extremely valuable.  We were given such helpful information which certainly prepared both my husband and I for the hospital visit and for our baby’s home coming.  Our coach then returned to help us with our newborn.  I’d definitely recommend this service to any first time parents, to help you prepare for your baby.  Linda, Randwick, NSW

If you know anyone expecting a baby and would like to give them a gift you know will have an impact our Gift Voucher for the Nursery Preparations.

Parenting e-books

Our e-books available online through our Publications are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child (74 pages).

E-book testimonial: "Hi, I just wanted to say thank you for your great website and publications (as well as the giant wraps!). Since I started a routine with my 4 month old, about 3 weeks ago, using lots of your advice from your e-book we haven't looked back. Before doing this I was finding myself frequently feeding after 3 hours, nearly having mastitis twice and generally feeling frazzled and unable to get out to do anything.

After a hard slog for the first week and probably an increase in the amount of crying in our house - that includes my baby, me, my husband (nearly) and probably my other 2 girls I have noticed that we are all a lot more relaxed, me especially. I have time to do things again, and by 7:00-7:30 each night ALL of our kids are in bed and I can relax with my husband. Every day my baby is easier to resettle and I am getting more and more confident, and less worried about him waking when it is not time for a feed He also seems happier and more relaxed and as you advised I am starting to wander round my house wondering what to do with the extra time I've got again! Anyway it's just on 10pm so it's time to go and feed!  Regards, Jennifer."

We would love to hear from others who have found our e-books or any of our products helpful. Please email me via our Contact Us page

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's New?

Thanks to word going out about our service to families in rural areas through information on our Correspondence Consultation and Case Studies pages, Sally had a trip up to Singleton to assist with a two year old's bedtime routine and night waking. It was a lovely break from travelling the streets of Sydney. The GPS took her on a winding rout through the beautiful Aussie bush past several farm gate produce on sale. Unfortunately she didn't return by the same route as she was looking forward to buying some fresh farm produce.

Thanks also to existing clients who have passed on our contact details to friends and family in other states. We have received quite a few inquiries and are now supporting parents in Western Aust, Victoria and rural NSW. Below read a happy testimonial from one of our client in Perth, WA. Thank you to all those who have passed on our contact details.

This Month's Article

June was a busy month for me with toddlers and young children which has lead me to address a few issue over the next few months that as parents you too may face.  Some of which can scare the wits out of parents. The first of these is topics I will cover in this and the next issue is: Phobias, Fears and Anxiety in babies and young children.

"Parents naturally want to protect their children against the terrors and pains this world can bring but unfortunately there are some things that we may not be able to protect our children from". .....click here to read the full story on Phobias, Fears and Anxiety.

Parents Testimonies

Leanne's E-mail from WA

My son was diagnosed with Silent reflux at 6 weeks old. I remember feeling disappointed we didn't realise what was going on earlier. We gave him the small dose of Losec prescribed and thought we were on top of things. Things didn't get better. We had a day stay at the Mothercraft Residential Centre, (which he slept through, I must have called them at least 20 times, sought help from the local community health nurse and numerous appointments with our paediatrician.

Despite my efforts, we had no routine. I was feeding 3-4 times at night. Rocking him for 40 minutes in his pram to get a 20 minute sleep during the day. He was ALWAYS tired and would often have times where he would be screaming in pain for 1-2 hours until the pain subsided. My whole day consisted of me trying to get him to sleep. I was given so much conflicting information: it's a growth spurt, feed him more during the day, he will grow out of it. At 18 weeks I was told about C2K from a friend in Sydney. As we live in Perth, I was able to use C2K services via correspondence.

I cannot imagine what our lives would be like if we hadn't had the help from Cradle 2 Kindy. Our parenting coach, Sally has been heaven sent! Sally was correct...medication was the key to our son's contentment. I had got into so many bad habits just trying to keep him from crying and get him to sleep. Sally gave me the tools to completely change this around. I now have a son who sleeps during the day and sleeps through at night but most of all he isn't screaming in pain. I never imagined this could happen so quickly.

Using Cradle 2 Kindy via correspondence has been a piece of cake. Sally has always been contactable within a few hours when I have needed her. I managed to achieve everything she outlined. I have stuck to her advice and with persistence and being consistent, my son is living a much happier pain free life.

He is actually giggling and not crying during his up time.

If I could, I would nominate Sally for the Nobel peace prize!!! She has certainly bought peace to our house.

Having a baby with reflux is a challenge and can take its toll. I just feel so lucky to have had the opportunity for Sally to help us especially when no one in Perth could".

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange another visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

Welcome to winter and our June 2010 edition of Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions newsletter.

A Note from the Editor

This month Justine Watson tells us about the counselling support Groups for parents of children with special needs.  Carers NSW fund these groups to enable parents to meet and tell their story, give and gain support from other families and carers.  The focus is on how to take better care of ourselves and not ‘burn out’.  The groups deal with issues of family and relationships, the grief process and how to cope on bad days.  They can help with the feeling of loss, isolation, exhaustion and the impossible role of parenting different children.  The groups run for 2 hours 8 consecutive weeks and are run by a counsellor who is a mum of a child with Autism.  These groups are held in Chatswood and will commence on 28 July.  For further information and to secure your place contact Justine 0414 237 383 justine@counsellingforall.com for more information go to www.counsellingforall.com

Justine is a mother of a child with special needs and understands the daily stress and strain on carers and their families and she provides a safe and supportive environment to discuss a range of issues.  Her great passion is self care and how to stay sane for the long haul. 

Calling all parents with reflux babies. We are still looking for video or film clips to help with our DVD production, assisting parents understand about reflux behaviour in babies.  If you or anyone you know have a baby with reflux who would like to help with this production please give them Sally email contact.  Thank you.

We still have some openings for the right women to join Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions franchise in Wollongong, Orange/Bathurst and Canberra.  Thanks to everyone for putting the word out in these areas.  If you, or anyone you know, are interested in helping parents with children from pre-birth to five years old, here is a fantastic opportunity to do so.  Read more at Franchises Available or on the News page.

Our e-books continue to be a great tool for parents. Mothercraft nurse Sally Hall has put together professional yet practical tips for parents who would like to be just one step ahead of their children.  For more details or to purchase these e-books with their practical parenting tips please follow the link to our Publications.  With every purchase you will receive a free copy of '1300 RUN 101 The Fundamentals of Parenting'.

Our e-books available are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child  (74 pages).  

E-book testimonial: "We found 'The Cradle Will Rock' e-book has been very helpful in many practical ways. We were also amazed how quickly our baby responded to the tips and suggestion for settling our baby, I also liked the way it debunked many of the myths surrounding sleep. I feel I am now more confident in my parenting and would not hesitate to recommend these parenting e-books to others especially if you are a first time parent like us. We are on to our second edition!" Fiona

We would love to hear from others who have found our e-books or any of our products helpful. Please email me at: info@cradle2kindy.com.au

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's New?

If you have any suggestions on what you think might be helpful links to include on our Links & Contacts page please let us know.  We have had a good response to updated our Case Studies with several people inquiring about the Correspondence Consultation.  So if you know anyone interstate or overseas who you think might benefit from our assistance please let them know about our service.

The price of 'Your Baby Can Read' DVD and book set have just been reduced.   We still have a stock of 'Your Baby Can Learn' books too.  These books teach: Shapes, Numbers, Patterns, Colours, and Prepositions.  To learn more or to order on line just click onto the drop down and choose 'Your Baby Can Learn'  The set of 5 books are $69.95

We have two NEW vibrant colours in our Plain Flannelette wraps - Hot Pink and Cornflour Blue. We are also continuing our sale on our extra large Stretch Cheesecloth baby wraps going for an amazing $22.00. These wraps are ideal for winter and are guaranteed to fit any baby.

While your in Our Shop take a look at our range of infamously large wraps and the wide range of colours available. All our baby wraps are made here in Sydney.  Order on line and support our Ozzie economy.

The start of the cold weather means winter cloths and the arduous job of trying to keep your baby's socks on. Problem solved with a pair of ‘Sock Ons’.  ‘Wrap Me Up’ swaddles can also be purchase through Our Shop. 

Looking for a unique gift idea?  How about a Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions Gift Voucher for a personal home visit or our unique Gift Ideas for newborns.  Make up your own selection of items from our list of products then let us put them together for you in a decorative box.  Both are very practical gift ideas for mother and baby.  What better way to help parents start off well.

If you are looking to buy a product and what to know what other parents or health professionals might suggest take a look at our 'Product Reviews to help you make your decision.  Don’t forget to let us know of any products you have found useful so we can add them too.

Join other parents on the Forums or start up a new topic.  This is a great place to support each other in the very important role of parenting.

This Month's Article

Dr Andrew Campbell, Consultant Psychologist, specialises in child and adolescent behaviour talk to us this month on learning difficulties and what parents can do to help. His article 'Promoting Good Learning Behaviour & Attention' states: "A lot of parents aim to stimulate their children early in order to promote good attention and learning abilities. This is a wonderful thing to do, but can sometimes lead to overstimulation of the child’s mind".....  click here to read the full story.

I have also gained permission to print an article some of you may have read in the April Sydney’s Child magazine titled 'Feeding Frustration'.  I thought this article was very interesting as it points out the complications that may occur if reflux is not picked up in the first few weeks of a babies life. "When Karen Eriksen’s son began refusing almost all food at the age of two, it would take five years and several specialists to establish what the problem was."...... click here to read more. 

Next month I have asked Michelle Fox a registered psychologist to talk about the psychological impact of your baby’s reflux on you and your family.

Parents Testimonies

Thanks to all the parents who contribute to this section through filling out our online evaluation form.  Keep those testimonials coming!

Jan's Comments

“Cradle 2 Kindy has a good website and good customer service.  I was really happy with the service I received.   Our coach was able to come and see me the same day I made an inquiry which was a big relief and I was able to start on the program ASAP.  I learnt more from this visit about routine and settling than with other books/courses and even from a stay at one of the mothercraft centres here in Sydney". 

Anna's Comments

"As a first time Mum and in my first week of sleep deprivation and breastfeeding issues, I was very overwhelmed and really not sure where to turn.  A friend from work had nothing but praise for Cradle 2 Kindy and I thought I had nothing to lose.  Our coach was here on the same day I called which was a real blessing as I was quite overwhelmed at the time.  She more than lived up to her reputation.  I had two pages of questions that she very patiently let me work through, although most were answered during the course of her visit. She was very empathetic and practical with great tips on settling and feeding.  She helped me implement new feeding and sleeping routines that have made for a much happier baby.  I have learnt that over feeding and cuddling too much are NOT the secrets to a happy baby.  An excellent service".

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange another visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

Happy Mother's Day and welcome to our May edition of Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions newsletter.

A Note from the Editor

I hope you found the last edition informative and the article by The Gidget Foundation interesting. 

This month I would like to introduce you to the MUM FOR MUM program. This is an outreach service for mothers of infants and women in the last trimester of pregnancy. The program offers home-based emotional support to mothers with little or no family support nearby, who feel isolated or who feel overwhelmed by the challenges of motherhood. The program matches up mothers with volunteers who have completed the MUM FOR MUM volunteer training program. The volunteers are not health professionals but mothers themselves who can appreciate your challenges. MUM FOR MUM is free of charge and currently services the eastern suburbs of Sydney.

MUM FOR MUM also offers a unique volunteering opportunity for mothers who are passionate about improving the wellbeing of other mothers.  By being a MUM FOR MUM volunteer you assist another mother enjoy motherhood and help her establish a nurturing bond with her baby.  MUM FOR MUM provides training and ongoing support.  It’s a great way to give back to your community.  For more information please go to www.mumformum.org.au or call them on 02 9363 0257

We still have some openings for the right women to join Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions franchise in Wollongong, Orange/Bathurst and Canberra. Thanks to everyone for putting the word out in these areas. If you, or anyone you know, are interested in helping parents from pre-birth to five years old, here is a fantastic opportunity to do so. Read more at Franchises Available or on the News page.

Our e-books continue to be a great tool for parents. Mothercraft nurse Sally Hall has put together professional yet practical tips for parents who would like to be just one step ahead of their children. For more details or to purchase these e-books with their practical parenting tips please follow the link to our Publications.  With every purchase you will receive a free copy of '1300 RUN 101 The Fundamentals of Parenting'.

Our e-books available are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child  (74 pages).  

E-book testimonial: "We found 'The Cradle Will Rock' e-book has been very helpful in many practical ways. We were also amazed how quickly our baby responded to the tips and suggestion for settling our baby, I also liked the way it debunked many of the myths surrounding sleep. I feel I am now more confident in my parenting and would not hesitate to recommend these parenting e-books to others especially if you are a first time parent like us. We are on to our second edition!" Fiona

We would love to hear from others who have found our e-books or any of our products helpful. Please email me at: info@cradle2kindy.com.au

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's New?

We have added a few more helpful links to our Links & Contacts page including: The Gidget Foundation and Mum for Mum. If you have any suggestions on what you think might be helpful links to include please let us know.

For those who have the DVD and books 'Your Baby Can Read' we have just re stocked our 'Your Baby Can Learn' books.  These books teach:
Shapes -Babies will learn geometrically-related shapes instead of the typical shapes found in most baby books.
Numbers -Dr. Titzer uses research from infant perception studies to help your baby learn the concept of number as well as learn to read numerals.
Patterns -This book teaches logic patterns using colourful photographs and words. For example, "big dog, little dog, big dog, little dog, big dog, little dog, big dog, What comes next?"
Colours -This book teaches lighter and darker shades of colours.
Prepositions -Some of the most frequently used words in English are prepositions. Most babies are not specifically taught these words. Imagine how much more language your baby will understand if she or he comprehends prepositions.

To order on line just click onto the drop down and choose 'Your Baby Can Learn'  The set of 5 books are $69.95

If you have missed out on our last baby wrap sale don't fret we have our extra large Stretch Cheesecloth baby wraps going for an amazing $22.00. These wraps are ideal for the coming cooler months and are guaranteed to fit any baby. Take a look at our infamously large wraps and the wide range of colours and fabrics displayed in Our Shop. All our baby wraps are made here in Sydney.  Order on line and support our Ozzie economy.

Another great novel gift idea are the 'Your Baby Can Read', ‘Sock Ons’ which can also be purchase through Our Shop. 

Our unique Gift Ideas for newborns continue to be on sale.  Why not make up your own selection from our list of products then let us put it together for you in a decorative box. Or buy a Gift Voucher for a personal home visit. A very practical gift idea!  What better way to help parents start off well.

If you are looking to buy a product and what to know what other parents or health professionals might suggest take a look at our 'Product Reviews to help you make your decision.  Don’t forget to let us know of any products you have found useful so we can add them too.

Join other parents on the Forums or start up a new topic.  This is a great place to support each other in the very important role as parents.

This Month's Article

Due to inquiries and interest in children with allergies amongst the clients visited recently, I have continued on the topic of food with the title 'Allergies'.  This article contains information on foods which are both high and moderate in natural chemicals. "In today’s society children face many of life’s obstacles very early, even while at the breast. ...".  click here to read the full story.

Parents Testimonies

Thanks to all the parents who contribute to this section through filling out our online evaluation form.  Keep those testimonials coming!

Danielle's Testimonial

“C2K has changed our household beyond belief. If someone had told me that by putting the steps in place discussed in one phone call our 2yr old would be staying in bed within 10 minutes and sleeping through the night and back to having day sleeps after 3 nights I wouldn’t have believed it. C2K has given us the tools to be better parents, and given us the chance to spend time together once the kids are in bed by 7pm...not 10pm! Even though we only spoke on the phone and emailed for our coaching we are so pleased with the results! Our parenting coach was always available whenever we had any queries and always took the time to talk through the process without it ever feeling rushed or that our 'issues' weren't important".  Koolunga, South Australia.

Roslyn's Comments

"Our coach was professional, friendly and skilled. Always responsive on the phone and with emails.   We appreciated the mothercraft advice that was as an additional service to the circumcision support provided. It was very practical mothercraft advice.   We also appreciated the routine provided.  Even though I was a bit reluctant to try it at first, it has been working perfectly".

If you have been or are a client we would appreciate if you fill out the Evaluation Form. We would like to share your testimonials, comments or stories to help encourage other parents who may be in a similar situation.

Thank you.

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange another visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

Welcome to our new first issue of Cradle 2 Kindy parenting solutions e-letters with a difference! In these letters we would like to help you get to know us and our service better and link you through to our most recent articles. Each issue will provide you with existing testimonies as well as help guide you through the website to pages that may interest you. We hope you enjoy!

A Note from the Editor

I’m excited about our new web design. There are a lot more features including an automatic newsletter which will hopefully eliminate the continual problem I have been having with returned mail and those who have unsubscribed. If you are a client I encourage you to check our our exclusive members area with lots of additional information and please while your there up date your members details to keep us up to date with your changing email address. All existing clients will be provided with their own log in details.

Take time to have a look at the changes that have been made to the Site. Including the Shopping Guide a guide for parents, family or friends looking to purchase gifts or just wanting to know what we as professionals or others parents think are their choice of products to buy.

Thanks to all of you who have given me their thoughts and suggestions on favourite products or brands. These have been added to the products guide. It’s not too late to send in more as I can always add to the list. We have also started a page with your preference of professional services. This will be an ongoing update as our service takes off in other areas of Aust.

Please let Sally know if you have thing you would like to include in these areas by emailing cradle2kindy@optusnet.com.au

Meanwhile please be patient with us as we iron out any glitches with this new site.  If you have any problems or see anything we may need to adjust please let me know immediately.  

Enjoy!

Sally Hall

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What's New?

In this section I would like to draw your attention to what has been recently added to our website.

So what's new this month. The website itself!

We now have our own Shop, Forum and Quick Search for those needing to look for a specific topic. I have also added more links on our Links and Contacts page, including: Babywedge to help encourage Tummy Time and Kindy Kamper for those of you with children at child care. I hope you find these helpful.

‘Your Baby Can Read’ can now be purchase through Our Shop and part of the purchase cost go towards the under privileged children at Homes of Hope - Indonesia and Eagles Wings - Zambia.

This Months Articles

Instead of our usual newsletter we have decided to put the topics straight onto the Articles page, this way everyone can benefit from them. We will provide links to them through this e-letter.

In this edition I would like to continue on the topic of learning disabilities and look as some ways you may be able to prevent them I have asked Barbara Pheloung to provide information from her Move to Learn program. Dr Katrina Warren continue with her series of articles on pets for young families this one is titled 'Babies and Cat's'.

Preparing you child to learn – part 2
Babies and Cats

Parents Testimonies

Sacha’s Story

After struggling for 4 months with friends and families advice, I was at the end of my tether. A friend gave me Cradle 2 Kindy’s number and within 4 hrs we had our consultant at our home helping me. The techniques were practical and my son responded immediately. It was amazing! She listened to my concerns and solved the problems that I was having. The techniques taught were simple and practical and have already changed mine and my son’s life. Being a first time mum should never have been that hard. I will be calling sooner with my second child. Than you from all of us!

Emma’s Testimony

After relocating to Sydney and moving several times before finding a home here our daughter was completely unsettled, clingy, irritable, whinge, and not sleeping well at all. Our routine had been thrown out the window and she had started waking every hour through the night. At our wits end we had a parenting coach from Cradle 2 Kindy over for 2 nights and got our first nights sleep in months! Our coach was tough but fair and has a wealth of knowledge about parenting skills, for now and future use. We’ve all found our smiles again thanks to the wonderful, easy to follow tips and advice we received.

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

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I hope you enjoy this edition, find something helpful for your family and learn something from the writers we have chosen for you this time.  If there are any topics you would like us to cover please let Sally know. 

Remember to keep your eyes posted on our site for our exciting new features including the long awaited shopping trolley and our new parent's forum. 

Don't for get to take a look at the changes to our Product Guide.  I think I have made it a lot more helpful.

Please remember, we do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used elsewhere or put to print.  Contact us on cradle2kindy@optusnet.com.au

May-June 2008

What's in this issue:

• Preparing your child for academic learning
• Dogs and babies
• ZCC's cooking services
• Patent's Testimonials

Preparing Your Child for Academic Learning

Although human beings aren’t born with an ability to read and write, we do seem to come with an in-built capacity for learning, and this learning seems to be designed to occur naturally in distinct stages, one skill building on another, until quite complex tasks like reading and writing can be mastered.  Before a child can be taught to write, for example, he or she must first gain the necessary muscular control to be able to focus their eyes, to sit up, and to hold a writing implement.  Fortunately, most of these skills are acquired quite naturally through the normal instinctive movements of babies and young children during the first three years of their lives.

Tummy Time  

Spending lots of time on their tummies presents one of the first opportunities for a baby to learn.  Major challenge number 1 is learning to simply roll over onto their backs.  This will be quite exciting for them, and they will continue to play with this and eventually be able to go from front to back and even to move around by rolling.  They should be encouraged to do lots and lots of this.

Major challenge number 2 is to develop the muscle strength to be able to lift the massive weight of their own heads.  Soon their shoulders and arms become strong enough for them to straighten their arms and look up.  With this amazing new ability, they will be able to see mum at the door (white board distance), and to look at their hands on the floor (reading distance).  The ability to focus is being developed.

Gradually they will be strong enough to lift up their stomachs and get up onto their hands and knees.  They won’t however likely be able to crawl yet.  First they will need to spend up to several weeks rocking back and forth on hands and knees developing muscular control and strength and dealing with retained primitive reflexes.

Primitive reflexes

Primitive reflexes are instinctive movements and reactions that allow a baby to not have to think about where they are going to suck, or how they will get down the birth canal or walk.  They do, however, have to be pacified or subdued once they are no longer useful.  If they are kept too long they will prevent a child developing normally and he or she will appear awkward and ‘different’.  Normal movement, such as rocking on hands and knees and play, are usually enough to deal with these reflexes but at least 25% of children need a bit of assistance.

Crawling

The next milestone is crawling.  All babies are absolutely delighted when they can move forward and backwards on their own.  This is also a vital stage in the development of academic readiness and it’s important that the child crawl in the ‘right’ way for a long enough period of time – usually six months.  Many babies may begin to crawl in a unilateral way, (moving their left arm and leg together and then their right arm and leg together), but it’s important that they crawl in a cross pattern manner, (moving their left leg and right arm together and then their right leg and right arm together).  This appears to be the most efficient way to help the child to develop communication between the right and left sides of the brain, to become integrated, in preparation for more complex learning tasks.

So much to learn before a child is ready for academic learning!

Most children go through these stages naturally and without difficulty, so that by the time they reach school age they are well prepared, but some children, for one reason or another, don’t spend enough time in each of these stages or even miss one out altogether.

Missed steps

Some babies don’t get enough time on their tummies, or don’t do enough rolling.  Some children progress too quickly from crawling to walking or even don’t crawl at all.  Others don’t crawl in a cross pattern manner.  The net result is that vital developmental stages are missed or skimmed over, leaving the child ultimately ill prepared for school.  When confronted with classroom learning, they are simply not yet ready and struggle to keep up with the rest of the class.

But, there is a lot that can be done to avoid or correct this.

• Make sure your baby has plenty of tummy-time.
• Encourage them to roll
• When they haul themselves up onto their hands and knees, encourage them to rock
• When they are ready, encourage them to crawl in a cross pattern manner
• Don’t encourage them to walk.  Throw out all walkers out into the sea! Encourage them to crawl even if you need to get down on the floor with them.

Simply allowing or encouraging your child to move in the normal, natural ways he or she was designed to move in goes a long way in helping your child to prepare for academic learning.

Kindly provided by Barbara Pheloung & Jini Liljeqvist.  For more information on Move to Learn go to: www.movetolearn.com.au

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Dogs and Babies

Bringing a baby into a household is an exciting but busy time. There are big changes for everyone and that includes our pets who may no longer receive the attention they are used to. Pets usually adapt very well to the arrival of a baby but it is important to plan properly and be sensible with your actions.  

Prepare well in advance - Pets are often substitute children before the arrival of a baby and people often feel guilty knowing a human baby will soon become priority. As a result, people often spoil their pet in the lead up to the baby arriving because they want the pet to have as much love and affection as possible. This may include being allowed for cuddles on the bed or couch, extra treats, more walks etc. Other people seem to just discard the pet after bub is born, delegating it to the backyard as though its use-by date is gone.

Unfortunately, this is the wrong approach and you need to start making any changes to your pets routine well in advance of giving birth. You don’t want your pet to associate the baby with any major changes to its lifestyle. Instead, we want the baby to be seen as a positive thing in the eyes of your pet. If your pet is no longer going to be allowed in the bedroom, on the couch or inside the house, start making those changes several months in advance.

Problem behaviours

Such as jumping up, pulling on the leash and barking need to be dealt with as soon as possible. Enlist the help of a dog trainer if need be as the more obedience training you can give your dog, the better. The last thing you want is a boisterous pooch bowling you over every time you walk into the room.  At the very least your dog must learn to sit and lie down at your command, even from a distance. You want your dog to be comfortable spending time on its own and happy to be outside at your request.

Aggression

This is one behaviour you must not ignore.If your dog shows any signs of aggression to people or other animals such as growling, guarding or biting, you should seek professional help immediately. Many people get so anxious about their dog’s behaviour, they inadvertently send all the wrong signals to their dog which can make the problem worse. Don’t try and sort this one out yourself!

The Month prior to giving birth

Set the nursery up and allow your dog to have a look around to familiarize with sights and sounds.

Buy a tape of baby noises and play at a low level until your dog in not interested in the sound of crying. Many dogs have never heard a baby cry before and this noise so this is a great way to get them used to it.

Barriers- if you are worried about your dog (or cat) entering the nursery an option is to put up a temporary screen door or baby gate across the door. You will still be able to see and hear bub but will be comfortable knowing that your cat or dog has not curled up for a nap in the babies belongings.

Get used to walking your dog with an empty pram. People might think you are strange but there is quite a lot to manage when you have a dog and pram. This will also get your dog familiar with the pram and the different pace he/she might have to walk.

Bringing baby home

A couple of days before baby comes home, bring a blanket or clothes with the scent of your baby on it so pooch can familiarize with the smell.

If possible get someone to exercise your dog shortly before you bring your bub home so your dog is less likely to be excitable- especially because he/she will not have seen you for a couple of days.

For the initial greeting with your dog, it is a good idea to have someone else hold your baby. Once your dog is calm have someone bring the baby in. Don’t make a fuss about it- if your dog is curious, that is fine and if he/she ignores the baby, that is OK too. If everyone can try to be positive and tell your dog what a good boy/girl she is that will help. I recommend using treats to reward your dog for behaving nicely.

You really want your dog to see the baby as a positive thing so whenever your dog and baby are in the room together, shower with praise and treats or even a game with a favourite toy. Ideally, enlist someone to help you with this. Your dog will start to associate the baby with fun times.

Give your dog its meals when the baby is present elsewhere in the room, so that the baby is there for this favourite time of the day.

Don't get angry at your dog for taking babies toys as he/she will not realise why you are shouting and may associate the smell of the baby with getting in trouble. You must manage this situation so that baby toys are not accessible to your dog.

Ask for help

Don’t be afraid to ask family and friends to help with walking, grooming, feeding etc If you can afford it, hiring a dog walker is a wonderful way to ensure your dog still gets the exercise it needs and give you some quiet time at home.

Supervise

Never leave a pet unsupervised around your baby, no matter how trustworthy you think they are. 

Health care

Make sure you regularly treat your pooch for fleas and worms.

For more information on pets please go to Dr Warrens website ww.drkatrina.com

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ZCC - Personal Chef Services

For your next dinner party, birthday lunch, or even for your next big date, why not hire a ZCC chef and enjoy quality time with your guests. ZCC has menus - but you are not limited to what is on the menu - If you have a special request, we will accommodate to your every desire.

ZCC provides you with your own personal chef offering services from Hens and Bucks parties, corporate Team-building classes, cooking with singles classes and personal chef services for you and your guests at that treasured dinner party or that hot date.

Be guided and inspired by a prestigious cooking class in Sydney

When it comes to taste there should be no dispute. True enough, there is no dispute when it comes to the cooking classes offered at ZCC. Our cooking classes are a fun, inspiring and inexpensive way to enjoy the company of friends and family. They are also an entertaining and relaxing way to mix with work colleagues on team building days or end-of-period events.

For more information or would like to sign up for free recipes please go to www.zcc.com.au

Parents Testimonies and Comments

Sacha’s Story

After struggling for 4 months with friends and families advice, I was at the end of my tether. A friend gave me Cradle 2 Kindy’s number and within 4 hrs we had our consultant at our home helping me.  The techniques were practical and my son responded immediately.  It was amazing!  She listened to my concerns and solved the problems that I was having. The techniques taught were simple and practical and have already changed mine and my son’s life.  Being a first time mum should never have been that hard. I will be calling sooner with my second child. Than you from all of us!

Emma’s testimony

After relocating to Sydney and moving several times before finding a home here our daughter was completely unsettled, clingy, irritable, whinge, and not sleeping well at all.  Our routine had been thrown out the window and she had started waking every hour through the night.  At our wits end we had a parenting coach from Cradle 2 Kindy over for 2 nights and got our first nights sleep in months!  Our coach was tough but fair and has a wealth of knowledge about parenting skills, for now and future use. We’ve all found our smiles again thanks to the wonderful, easy to follow tips and advice we received.

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Welcome to our first 2007 newsletter in our new format.  Please forward the email with its link to your friends and family. There will be fewer articles and less advertising as many contacts and information can be acquired through the web site.  I will continue to keep you informed of any changes and new ideas.

As mentioned the email the newsletters will no longer be posted on our web site nor will there be a link to them, so if you would like to save any of these articles please download them for later reference.  We do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used else where or put to print.  See contact details below.

January - February 2007

What's in this issue:

• Sibling Rivalry
• Pets and a New Baby Arrives Home
• Patents Testimonials

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Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry is a normal part of family life - it is learning to live with one another. In a sibling relationship we learn how to share, co-operate with one another, listen, communicate, deal with our feelings, understand others point of view and feelings, and how to resolve conflict.

Preparation for a new baby

Before your new baby arrives home, prepare your older child for the expected arrival. Talk about where baby will be sleeping etc. Change your child’s routine as little as possible and keep the boundaries as they are. The fewer the changes the better your child's transition. If changes are needed, it is advisable to do so well in advance. For example moving from cot to a bed, changing rooms, attending child care. This will give your child plenty of time to adjust. Enrolling your toddler into activities away from mum such as child care, will teach them more independentce, help them make new friends and to learn how to mix with their peers. This will also give mum time alone with baby. Let your toddler know when you are going to hospital and have a gift from the baby to give to their older sibling.

When baby arrives home help your older child become involved with the care of the baby according to their ability. eg. fetching a nappy, holding the baby (with supervision). This will also help them to see their place in the family unit as being important. Help your toddler to understand what she is going through by talking about her feelings as well as the baby’s is important. Explain to her that sometimes you will need to spend time with the baby. During this time be prepared with activities to entertain her.  eg when feeding the baby. Spend quality time with your older child when baby is sleeping. Reassure her with lots of cuddles and hugs during this time.

Outside help is best utilised to enable you to spend more time with your older children.

Conflict management

As parents, we set the example through role modelling. Watching parents argue and how they make up sets the pattern for our children to follow. Show your children constructive conflict resolution. Supervision is needed for young children and babies as they may be at risk of being hurt. With older children, much of their bickering can be ignored. Don’t take sides or compare one child with the other as this may only stir up the tension between siblings or encourage stubbornness. Parents need to be flexible yet consistent with their approach on discipline. Discuss and agree on what boundaries and the method of discipline the family will use and support each other, showing that you are united and working together.

Tips to avoid family conflict

• Use your words not actions
• Speak in a friendly voice - don’t shout
• Respect one other and their belongings.

What causes conflict?

• Jealousy, different interests, temperament, personalities and age
• Attention seeking, boredom, testing their limits or egocentrism
• Lack of social or communication skills
• Family upheavals, disputes or sickness.

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Pets and a New Baby Arrives Home

Continuing from our last newsletter, Philipp lets us know what to expect when arriving home with a new baby.

On your arrival home with your baby make sure that you give your pets the attention and greeting that you would have given them had you just been away on holidays.  Perhaps giving them an extra treat or a new toy will let them know that you didn't desert them but had just been away for a while … and happened to bring someone else home with you. 

First impressions

On introducing the baby to your pets initially, have one adult holding the animal and another holding the baby.  Ensure both are getting appropriate attention but are in the same room.  Gradually you can bring the two of them closer together, always ensuring that the pet is under control.  This process can take anything from a few hours to a few weeks depending on the nature of the pet.  If your pet has a history of showing any signs of aggression towards strangers or other animals, you must do this incredibly cautiously.  Don’t try to do it on your own, a dog jumping up to investigate a baby can easily accidentally scratch them or even bump them out of your arms.  It doesn't matter how much you trust your pet, they must never be left alone with a baby or an infant. 

Pampering

It is important to ensure that your pet gets some ’special time’ with you, just like they did before the intruder arrived home!! Perhaps an extra cuddle when the baby is asleep or taking your dog for a walk, without the baby, will ensure that they realize you still love them just as much as always, but you are just a bit busier these days. Sleep deprivation doesn’t always allow hour-long walks but going to a park, sitting in the sun and throwing a ball or a stick can do wonders for your sanity! It will give you a chance for a bit of ‘baby-free’ time, something that doesn't happen that often as a new parent.   Perhaps this is a reason to love your pets that bit more.   I personally got a 6-week old Border Collie puppy when I was six and a half months pregnant and already had a 9 month old kitten.   Everyone told me I was crazy and that I was creating so much extra work for myself.  How would I possibly find time to walk the dog when I had a newborn? And the cat would definitely want to get into the cot and cause all sorts of problems, not to mention all the germs!!

Best of pals

After following all the above ideas, my 8 month old daughter breaks into a beaming smile whenever she sees the dog and the dog is incredibly adoring of her as well.  She lets her stroke her head (always under supervision of course) and even lets her little fists pull at her ears.  My gorgeous ginger kitten looks at Lucy from afar but really isn't that interested in her.  Never once has she jumped into the cot and neither of them goes into the nursery, even when the door is open, if I am not with them.  Sure, I spend a fair bit of time picking up poo of one sort or the other, but basic hygiene methods such as regular worming, hand washing and vacuuming has meant that all of us are nice and healthy.  It is now considered that children who grow up with pets are much less likely to suffer asthma or any other allergies.  As a new mum, to a human baby and two of the furrier varieties, all three of them make my day in different ways.   Philippa Warren BVSC (and mum!!)

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Parents Testimonies and Comments

Michelle’s comments

The time I spent with our nurse was invaluable as a first time mother, the hands-on experience and tips made my confidence grow.

Prue’s story

I was given the confidence to help my son with his bedtime and early rising issues.  I am sure these methods will not only help our baby get more sleep but the entire family.

Samantha’s comments

Excellent advice and care regarding our sons circumcision, very reassuring. Newsletters are excellent. You should consider seminars write a hand book or give postnatal lectures to new parents to guide through the more important issues.

Kate’s story

Our daughter of three months was unable to sleep without movement—we had made the error of rocking or pushing her to sleep.  In four hours our nurse from Mothercraft Home Service was able to break this habit and get our baby to sleep in a cot.  These and other good habits taught to us should last well into childhood.

Karyn’s story

Our 20 month old son was throwing tantrums and we were having trouble disciplining him.  Sally came around and showed us how to 'positive parent' and the time-out method.  Literally within days his behaviour had improved.

See other testimonials related to the headings throughout the web site or  read through those on our Mothercraft Home Service web site, through the link on our articles page.

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Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

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