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March 2012

Thursday, March 01, 2012
Summer has finally caught up with us here in Sydney hopefully leaving behind the flooding rain and thunder storms. I have certainly enjoyed the sunny warm/hot days as a friend has been visiting from Spain.  My second mobile phone continued to play up till it too died! So now I am on my third phone! I'm praying this one will be hassle free for many years.  I still recommend you keep trying to call me if you are unable to get through to me when you call. The best times to call is between 12 and 6pm.  

I'm glad many of you have found our articles on Childcare and School Preparations and The pros and cons of child care and last months article on  Packing Lunch helpful. This year I'm going to revise some of our popular topics. See This Month's Article for the latest review.

If you would like to read about the services Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions provide please click on the following links Newborn Care, Baby Care and Toddler & Child, Respite for Parents, a Night Nurse or a Professional Babysitter we also provide Gift Vouchers for many of these services.

Click the following to read more information about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions What happens at a coaching session.

For more information or to make a booking call Sally on: 0409 721 145.

Your feedback is invaluable

Thank you once again for all your feedback regarding our newsletter and articles. Please let me know if there is a topic you would like us to write about.

If you are a client or a customer we would also appreciate your feedback on our service and products. Clients may log into our member's area and fill out the Evaluation Form or email your comments through our Contact Us page. We would love to share your testimonials, comments and stories as they encourage other parents who may be in a similar situation.

Thank you.

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

This Month's Article

This month I'd like to go back and look at some topics that have been popular.  This article may be helpful to breastfeeding mothers as well as toddlers who are bitting.  Causes, Prevention and Solutions for a Child who Bites "Biting may occur at any age from breastfeeding infants to frustrated toddlers.   There are many reasons for biting, here are some helpful hints on how to deal with biting from breast feeding through to toddlers".  To read more please follow the above link.

Parents Testimonies

Nadine's Comments

C2K parenting coach gives you the parent confidence and strength to teach your child no matter how difficult the issue maybe that you are faced with. Its all about teaching the parent the right way to teach your child. Once you have this confirmed from a parenting coach you are well on your way to managing your child behaviour.

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange a visit please don't hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

All written material on the website or in our emails has a copyright. The use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions 

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

 

 

April 2011

Friday, April 01, 2011

Welcome to our April newsletter and a Happy Easter or Passover to all those celebrating this special time of the year.  To those with children at school its holiday time again!  If you are looking to go somewhere that is child friendly here are two great destinations to consider.  Quince Cottage in Gracetown, Margaret River area in WA for the wine lovers or The Terrace Grove in Ocean Grove VIC.  Both are kid's and pet friendly and just a short walk to the beach and the surf.

A Note from the Editor

Thank you once again for all your feedback regarding our newsletter and articles.  I’m pleased that some of you have found Eve’s article helpful.  I would like to divert slightly for the next two months but continued on the theme of diet by taking a look at Fussy Feeders.  I do hope those of you with feeding problems find these topics helpful.  

Thank you for your feedback and recipes for our new web page. Please continue to send them in, any contributes are greatly appreciated.

Our Recipes for Kids this month has been sent in by Rachael from Randwick and is called ‘Sweet Potato Custard’.  Each month I will post up a new recipe so if you have something your family enjoys please let us all enjoy it.

As we approach winter I would like to tell you about a new product that has come to my attention called Cosy Grips.  They are a clever gadget that helps to keep the duvet on the bed.  If you are tired of your child’s quilt falling off them during the night, this may be the solution you are looking for.  Cosy Grips simply slide under mattress and fasten to cover or duvet on either side. They are just the thing for children transitioning from cot to bed and great for bunk beds or for little wrigglers.  No more getting up to check if your child is still under their covers.  Now you can all have a better night's sleep!  For more information please go to www.cosygrips.com

If you would like to know more about the service Cradle 2 Kindy provides please don’t hesitate to give Sally a call on: 0409 721 145 or for more information read about our Newborn Care, Baby Care and Toddler & Child visitations on these links.

You can also read about What happens at a coaching session click on this link. Cradle 2 Kindy also provides Gift Voucher and Respite for Parents a Night Nurses or a Professional Babysitter giving parents an opportunity to have time off.


Your feedback is invaluable

Thank you to everyone who has given me feedback on our newsletters and articles.  Please keep your comments and suggestions coming. 

If you are a client or a customer we would also appreciate your feedback on our service and products.  Clients may log into our member's area and fill out the Evaluation Form We would love to share your testimonials, comments and stories as they encourage other parents who may be in a similar situation.

Thank you.

Warm regards,

Sally Hall

What's Happening?

C2K Parenting e-books

We continue to receive positive feedback on our e-books which are available online through Our Shop Publications.  These are: 'The Cradle Will Rock' 0-3 months (86 pages), 'Rock a Bye Baby' 3-9 months (103 pages), 'When the Wind Blows' 9-18 months (88 pages), and 'When the Bough Breaks' toddler and child (74 pages).

C2K Gift Vouchers

Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions Gift Vouchers can be ordered for special occasions such as a baby shower, to welcome the new baby home, Brit Milah or just to give parents a night off. 

Take a look at the choices we are offering and choose the voucher that best suit the occasion.

C2K Shop 

Other gift ideas for a family with a new baby can be chosen from Our Shop or select one of our Gift Ideas which is delivered in a decorative box.  You can also make up your own gift ideas package by selecting items from the range of products in Our Shop.  These gifts can be put together for you in a decorative box or gift wrapped.  Choose from our large range of extra large baby wraps which are cheaper and larger than our competitors.  We also have our renowned Sleep CD - Sleep Solutions Sounds For Sleeping and a choice of e-books Publications.

Our products are not only for parents with newborns we also provide educational children’s DVD’s and books from the Your Baby Can Read series. 

C2K Pages of Interest

There are many pages on our website that may be of interest or help to parents.  Some of these are our Links & Contacts page FAQ and our Product Review page. {tag_recipientfirstname} please let us know if you have any suggestions so that we can add to these pages. 

Check out the Products Review page before you make a purchase as it may help you make your decision on the item you are about to buy.  This page gives helpful comments on various products for children from birth to five years old including great books for parents.  Don't forget to let us know of other products you have found useful so we can add them to the list.

Have you read through our Case Studies?  We have many topics from newborn care, sleep issues ranging from newborns to young children, day cat-nappers to night wakers and a variety of behavioural issues.

This Month's Article

As previously mentioned this month I would like to continue along the theme of food which we started last month with the tips on Packing Lunch and our new webpage with Recipes for Kids.  This month I am taking a look at Fussy Feeders.  “Having worked amongst many babies and toddlers who either fuss at the breast/bottle or are refusing or fussy with their solids I would like to discus some of the reasons I have found are quite common causes of this fussiness.""  click on the link above to read more.

Take a look at our first recipe Ice Treats which comes under the latest recipe Sweet Potato Custard. 

Parents Testimonies

Katie's Letter of Thanks

Hi Sally, I just wanted to thank you for all the support that you provided to our new little family. We are using your routine effectively and Mark is now sleeping well! Your diagnosis of Mark's reflux was spot on. Once we started him on the medication, we noticed a remarkable improvement and were so relieved. Your website continues to be a useful source of information, as he grows, the articles are very informative. Thanks again for all your support. It’s great that you are there to support not just at the consultation but also readily available to answer any questions on the phone. Very reassuring for a first time Mum with parents overseas! Best wishes Katie.

Any Questions?

If you have any general questions about Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions service or would like to arrange a visit please don’t hesitate to call Sally on 0409 721 145.

I'd love to hear from you!

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

January - February 2008

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Happy New Year!  I hope this year brings great joy and happiness to you and your family.  There are some exciting times ahead for us at Cradle 2 Kindy as we approach the final stages of franchising.  We will be looking for our first franchisees to work in Wollongong, Newcastle and Penrith areas.  If you know of any mothercraft, midwifes or nurses who may be interested please ask them to contact Sally on cradle2kindy@optusnet.com.au

Please remember, we do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used elsewhere or put to print.  Contact us on cradle2kindy@optusnet.com.au

January - February 2008

What's in this issue:

This years I am going to do a series of articles on pets.  Dr Katrina Warren has kindly given Cradle 2 Kindy permission to publish her articles.  Many thanks Dr Katrina, we are very grateful to be able to share your wealth of knowledge. 

Thank you to all those who have give us your comments and suggestion, I hope you find something useful in this issue.

Breastfeeding & Introducing a Bottle

It was suggested by a client that I talk about formulas and their composition warning breastfeeding mothers of the danger of introducing bottles on a regular basis unless they have no other alternative.  I have decided to let her tell her story followed by my comments.  We shall look at her testimony in two parts the first being the introduction of a bottle while breastfeeding and the second being her concerns about formulas.

Concerned mothers testimony

Part 1.   Breastfeeding and introducing a bottle.

I have had an eventful few weeks... at 9 weeks post baby, my obstetrician told me I have an infected and inflamed uterus, so I had to go on antibiotics for 10 days.  Almost immediately after starting the medication, Lillie started to get very fussy during feeds and would not take a feed other than through a bottle.  She would not take expressed milk, only formula or expressed milk mixed with formula.  Over a period of 4 weeks, she decided she will only take the bottle.  I have given up trying to breastfeed her now.

It is a shame as I am producing so much milk - which is now expressed and given to her via the bottle. She now weighs over 8 kls and drinks about 800-900mls of expressed milk per day (people are amazed I can express that much!) and I give her a bottle of formula last thing at night. So I guess I should consider myself lucky that I am expressing so much so she is still getting the benefits of breastmilk... but I was quite upset initially - I have subsequently heard that certain medication can make the milk taste yucky - I think that's what happened, which put her off feeding the normal way and because I was on antibiotics for 10 days, over that time she clearly decided that feeding through a bottle is preferable (i.e. easier).

As she received formula during that time, she also developed a taste for formula (which I have virtually phased out now thanks to expressing so much).  [read more about this clients concerns with formula in our next edition]

Note from Cradle 2 Kindy

I have found breast refusal is a common problem once a bottle has been introduced.  Babies choosing bottle over breast is basically due to our human nature which chooses the easy way out.  It is much quicker and less effort to drink from a bottle then to slog away at the breast so why not wait for the bottle and eventually refuse the breast totally.  This usually begins as a gradual process.

Babies often give less effort to drinking from the breast when they know the bottle will follow.  Less stimulation and shorter feeds will over time reduce the amount of milk produced.  The less milk the less time baby will stay on the breast, the less stimulation the less production and so it goes till baby refuses all together.  If as in the above testimony mum keeps up her supply by expressing, baby has a good supply but due once again to our bias towards the easy way out she gives in to the bottle.  At first baby refused the beast due to the ‘yucky taste’ she may then either refuse to go back for the same reason having decided formula was tastier and or the bottle is much quicker and less effort. 

Babies may also refuse the breast if they have reflux.  Often with reflux babies they begin to refuse the breast due to their association with feeding and pain.  They will fuss on and off the breast crying or just totally refuse to go back on even though you know they have not taken enough.  Again the breast is not stimulated enough to make the quantity baby needs so they begin to cut back and eventually mum loose her milk.  Again you may start to top baby up after the feed to ensure he/she is getting his/her quota this will lead to the preference to the bottle. Reflux babies will prefer the bottle at first because it goes down quicker therefore pushing down the up serge of stomach contents keeping the milk in the tummy.  As the reflux get worse the bottle will also be refused. 

Another reason babies often refuse the breast is when they are being fed too frequently or have just had enough to drink.  Some mothers are overly concerned that baby is not getting enough as they are not on the breast as long as they use to be.  Newborns commonly feed for up to 45 mins every 3½ - 4 hourly, as babies get older they become more efficient and may only take ten minutes.  If a newborn is taking less than 30 minutes every 3 ½ hours than, unless baby is under weight, he/she is probably snack feeding and cat napping.  If baby is fed well at each feed having up time after every day feed they should sleep well and wake on time for the next 4 hourly feed.  If given short feeds they will wake after an hour or so of sleep and look for another short feed, they are more tired than hungry and so will not feed well.  If offered more they may cry or refuse.  Stretching their feeds out and giving them a full feed will eliminate this problem.  

Solution when introducing a bottle:

We suggest introducing a bottle early to prevent baby refusing a bottle when you are needing to give one such as returning to work, needing to attend a function, or God forbid you needed to go to hospital or take a drug which is harmful to baby.   Choose the right bottle – our suggestion is using the Pigeon Peristaltic teat.  (This can be used on other makes of bottles as they come in narrow and wide neck).  Use the bottle sparingly eg. 20-50 mls once or twice a week or a full feed once a night.  (this can be done from birth only if you express the full feed one hour before needed otherwise you may jeopardise you milk supply after six weeks this is not so crucial). 

If needing to use the bottle more frequently due to baby’s poor weight gain.  Express after every feed for 7 – 10 minutes to increase your supply and as it increases decrease the amount offered in the bottle.  When expressing you should NOT get any milk out if you do it should be less than 30 mils if not baby is not draining you properly.  Encourage him/her to stay on for longer or may be he/she has had sufficient and you no longer need to express.

If needing to use formula mix this with any expressed breast milk and again as your supply increases decrease the amount offered in the bottle.  For occasions when baby refused the breast due to it’s ‘yucky’ taste express the milk and mix in a little pre made formula just to get her through this feed.  Try her back to the breast at every feed and only use a bottle once or twice a day to ensure baby is not going to dehydrate.   Baby will eventually get hungry and adapt to the flavour.  If bottles are offered after every feed you will have the same problem as the client in the testimony. 

Q. How long can I keep up my milk production if I continue to express (currently about 6 times per day and I haven't noticed a drop-off in the amount I am expressing for the last 2 weeks)?  I really want to provide Lillie with the benefits of my milk for as long as possible, even if she will only take it via the bottle.

A. Keeping up milk production all depends on the mother and her supply. Many mums loose their supply very quickly once the stimulation from baby ceases.  This is usually because a baby is more efficient than the pump.  Other mums are able to keep up a good supply with pumping until they choose to cease.  If you choose to express you will need to be diligent and express 5-6 times per 24 hours and drain each side at each expressing.  This can be done quicker with an electric double attachment pump which Medela has.  Make sure you ask for the double attachment at the pharmacy.   As a baby get older and mothers return to work a baby may be able to adapt and be able to breast feed morning and night and take the bottle during the day while mum is at work.  If mum’s express once or twice during the day this may be added to the formula to replacing the missed feeds. 

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Benefits of Pets for Children

Pets and children can share a remarkable relationship–there is something extraordinary about the bond that develops between a child and their special playmate. Apart from companionship, there are many other benefits for children sharing their lives with a pet.

Pets teach responsibility

Children learn responsibility by helping with the caretaking of a pet. They learn about the requirements of a living being- such as food, water and exercise.

Fish are a great first pet because it is easy to give children and active role in feeding them. Pets that require more attention, like a cat or dog, can present an ideal opportunity for parent and child to spend time together doing activities such as walking the dog or preparing the food.

Pets are a friend to children

Children turn to pets when they need a friend, confidante or protector. In fact, studies have shown that pets often hold a similar status in children's lives to parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts and uncles, teachers, best friends, and childminders. The study found that dogs, in particular, often superseded humans as a child's 'best friend'.

Pets do not judge children or get angry at them which can help with self esteem. Children often trust their pets with their secrets and private thoughts.

Pets aid childhood development

Pets help children develop nurturing and social skills. Developing positive feelings about pets can aid self-esteem and help children develop non-verbal communication and compassion. Studies of school children have shown that pet owners are not only more popular with their classmates but seem to be more empathetic as well.

Pets teach life lessons

Pets are often the first experience a child has with death and grieving.  Pets also help kids to learn about health and illness and visits to the veterinarian reinforce that pets need good health care too.

Pets help teach respect for other living beings.

Pets are fun

Pets provide unconditional love, affection and comfort. Children can participate in safe games with their pets and those who participate in walking/exercising the family dog have the added benefit of extra physical activity. Kids enjoy helping with tasks like washing the dog or brushing the cat (always under supervision).

Pets encourage children to exercise

Physical activity in children results in social, mental and physical health benefits, to maximise these benefits it’s important to promote physical activity and reduce sedentary behaviour in Australian children.

The Children’s Leisure Activities Study (CLASS) was undertaken to look at the family environment and its influence on children’s physical activity and sedentary behaviours. Preliminary findings indicate that playing with pets is in the top ten physical activity choices for children and families; owning a dog may encourage children to exercise and help reduce childhood obesity.

Pets may help to reduce allergies and asthma- western cultures report increasing rates of asthma and allergic disease, with pets often implicated as a causal factor. An interesting development in research in recent years, however, has demonstrated the opposite may in fact be the case: the presence of cats and dogs in the home from an early age may actually ‘acclimatise’ the developing immune system so that it is less sensitive to allergens in later life.

For more information on pets www.drkatrina.com

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Parents Testimonies and Comments

Katie’s comments

Cradle 2 Kindy was absolutely wonderful.  So many things I didn't know.  I'm much more confident now as my knowledge has increased ten-fold.  All my questions were answered it's just incredible what I've learned in one day.

Initially I was mislead about a baby's routine which had my son in an incorrect routine.  I was shown within one day how to extend from a 3 - 4 hour routine, how to lengthen tummy time from 10 mins to an hour, how to break the 45 min intruder and how to sleep through the night.  Cradle 2 Kindy has changed our life - I am now a confident mother with a happy baby.  thank you.

Dani’s testimony

Cradle 2 Kindy's service was outstanding, the information provided was clear, practical, useful and spot on.  My questions were answered before I even asked them, due to the thorough information provided, this has enabled me to truly understand my baby and his needs.

Within half an hour of meeting my husband and I, our coach suggested that our baby may have reflux as he has hardly slept for 6 weeks since he was born.  she was correct and since her practical help and advice, and medication from our peadiatrician, our baby is sleeping well and is much happier.  The support information and ability to call for follow up advice is invaluable.  My only regret is not calling sooner!  Fantastic! I highly recommend their service.

Natalie’s testimony

Having my third child I thought this child would be easier.  We were wrong.  Our coach picked up that our son had reflux and told me exactly how to handle it.  I follow her routine by the book and now we are enjoying our child.  The session was very informative and a real eye opener even for someone with prior experience.  Our parenting coach's really felt for me and our situation.

See other testimonials related to the headings throughout the web site or  read through those on our Mothercraft Home Service web site, through the link on our articles page.

See all other Parenting Articles from our Archives

All articles on this website have a copyright any the use of any material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.

Disclaimer: Information we provide is for education purposes only.  Please consult with your doctor to make sure this information is right for your child.

September - October 2007

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Welcome to our winter edition of Cradle 2 Kindy’s newsletter.  Please remember you will only be able to click onto the newsletter through the link from your email page.  We do have a copyright and permission must be granted before any of our articles or information can be used elsewhere or put to print.  See contact details below. 

My apologies to anyone who has been having problems with the website I have been changing server.

September - October 2007

What's in this issue:

This issue I would like to alert you to two health warnings, both was brought to my attention by clients and health workers regarding washing and clothing products for babies/children.  I will also cover the topic of sterilising and babies who are fussy drinkers. 

Thank you for your comments and suggestion, I hope you find something useful in this issue.

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Two Health Warnings

1. Baby Body Wash Products & Parabens

Parabens are the most commonly used preservatives in topical pharmaceutical preparations. They are also used in cosmetics, skin care products, medications and foods.

Parabens can be found in many of the main brand baby products and other products such as shampoos, soaps and cleansers and are known to cause an irritant dermatitis.  Recently they have been liked with some types of cancers.

For more information take a look at the following link:

 http://www.dermnetnz.org/dermatitis/parabens-allergy.html

The note at the bottom specifies the cancer caution.

2. Baby Clothing Products

Also just to alert you to a report on the toxic chemicals - Formaldehyde and Aromatic Amines which have been added to the garments being manufactured in China.  These chemicals are carcinogenic and are known to cause several medical problems including rashes, headaches and asthma.   These chemicals are to reduce the crinkles in natural fabrics such as cotton and wool and are found not only in adult clothing but those made for babies and children.  The advice given to help reduce these chemicals in our clothing is to wash them frequently before wearing them.  

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Sterilising Baby's Equipment

This is just a brief overview of why, when and methods of sterilising.  Today it is not so important to sterilise everything we use for a baby as long as they are thoroughly washed in hot soapy water or put through a clean dishwasher.  Dishwashers are known to go to such high temperatures that they sterilise while they wash.  Just make sure it is a clean dishwasher and that food doesn’t get trapped in the baby’s items. 

If you choose to sterilise baby’s equipment, you may do so up to the age of 3-6 months. After this, baby’s immune system has developed enough to fight off most common bugs.  In fact, it is wise to allow baby to build up their immune system by coming into contact with everyday household bugs which they would normally do, such as playing on their mat, crawling around on the floor and exploring their environment.

If you do wish to sterilise, here are some tips for sterilising that may help you.

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Cleaning equipment

Before sterilising, make sure you have thoroughly rinsed and washed all equipment in hot soapy water by using a bottle brush where necessary. 

What to sterilise? It is advisable to sterilise all equipment and containers used to store and prepare milk until baby is at least nine months old. Thereafter, a hot soapy wash or hot wash cycle in a dishwasher is sufficient. 

Methods of sterilising:

Boiling - It is advisable to put a timer on to remind you when to turn off the stove when sterilising is finished. Place all items, covered with water, in a large covered saucepan. Bring to the boil and boil for 5 minutes. Allow it to cool before removing items.

Steam - Commercial sterilisers automatically turn themselves off.  All you need to do is fill them with your cleaned items, put in the required amount of water and turn them on. It is also advisable to clean your sterilising unit at least once a week to remove the build up of residue from the water used. This can be done in various ways, e.g. use one third white vinegar to two thirds water. Turn on the steamer as normal and allow it to go through a normal steam cycle, empty the fluid out and you are ready to use as normal. Read cleaning instructions on your steamer before trying this method.

Microwave Steamer - Again add the required amount of water to your cleaned items and follow the instructions of the manufacturer. Clean the steamer with hot soapy water once or twice a week depending on its usage. 

Quick single item steam - put item into half a cup of water, cover and place in the microwave on high for five minutes.

Chemical - Make up the anti-bacterial solution (from tablet or liquid form) to the manufacturer’s specifications. Do not put metal into the solution as it will rust. Make sure that the glass or plastic items are totally submerged, without any trapped air bubbles for a minimum of one hour before using. It is possible to leave items in the solution until they are needed but anything added will require all to be sterilised for another hour. Therefore it would be advisable to take out all the items when clean and store them as described below. This solution will need to be discarded after 24 hours, and the container and any unused items thoroughly scrubbed with warm, soapy water before refilling. The discarded solution if poured over your dish cloths will leave them smelling fresh and clean. Both the concentrate and made-up-solution must be stored away from children and direct sunlight.

Storage:

Store all sterilised items not in immediate use in a clean container or wrap in cling wrap which reduces contamination. Store all covered items in the fridge to minimise bacterial growth. Any sterilised item if unused after 24 hours will need to be sterilised again before use.

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Milk refusal

Breast or bottle refusal can be a distressing occurrence for both mother and baby.

Often the baby has previously fed happily, then for some reason, begins to refuse a feed.  Causes may be apparent such as: an alert baby being easily distracted, over-feeding or force-feeding, gastric reflux, illness in the infant or if breastfeeding, oral or nipple thrush, mastitis, medications and hormonal changes (e.g. ovulation, menstruation), or mother becoming ill.  There may also be issues relating to mother’s milk supply, such as: low supply, or slow let-down reflex (thus baby becomes frustrated), or the milk flowing too quickly and baby needs a breather.

Usually, after a few days the baby begins feeding again as though there had never been a problem. If the cause can be located it can be treated, e.g. thrush, gastric reflux.

I have seen older babies who literally refuse their feeds even after only having 30-50 mls or 5 -10 mins on the breast.  These babies usually come off crying and refuse further attempts to get them to feed. This is very stressful for mums and bubs.  Many of these babies have a degree of reflux and even though they may be on medication, the medication is not enough to prevent discomfort while feeding.  Adjusting their medication will improve baby’s feeding so have a chat to your doctor.  If the situation is ignored it usually becomes worse. 

It is also important not to feed baby too soon after the last feed as she will not feed well and you will only be setting up a bad habit of snack feeding and cat napping. Or if baby has reflux, it may be adding fuel to the fire, increasing the stomach content which aggravates the heart burn.

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Breastfeeding

If you feel baby is not getting enough and are giving her a supplementary or top up feed from a bottle, this may eventually cause your milk supply to dwindle, unless you are expressing to stimulate your breast after every day-time feed.  If you are expressing, do not over-express.  Five to seven minutes is sufficient but should be done regularly to have any effect.  Remember you are not expressing to store milk.  If your supply is low you may not be able to express any milk.  Expressing is to stimulate the breast to make more. 

If you have a good supply in the mornings I suggest you express the excess to give as a top up in the afternoons when you suspect you supply is lower.  You will also need to express after feeds just till your supply increases.

Be aware that if you introduce a bottle on a regular basis, your baby may refuse the breast totally as drinking from a bottle requires less effort than the breast.

If mother’s milk supply is suspected to be low in comparison to the demands of her growing baby, measures to increase production can be put into action and after a couple of weeks, the infant is often contentedly sucking away as before.

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Some suggestions to encourage a fussy milk feeder:

If you persist in trying to make a baby feed when she adamantly refuses to do so, the infant just becomes more upset.  Try distracting them for five to ten minutes with a bit of tummy time and try again.  If she continues to refuse, it is most likely she has either had sufficient or there is a greater problem such as reflux.

If you are breastfeeding, another possible suggestion is for mother and baby to get into a warm bath together and after baby has relaxed, she is slowly brought up to the breast.  Usually such a baby enjoys the skin-to-skin contact and will begin to suck well.

If your child has started solids, here is a recipe you may like to try to encourage bub to increase their dairy intake.  Formula may be used to substitute the milk.

Yoghurt or milk jelly

1 ½ tablespoons of unflavoured gelatine

½ cup (125 mls) of cool water

¾ cup (185 mls) milk or 1 cup (250 mls) plain yoghurt – instead of milk

  • In a small saucepan sprinkle gelatine over cool water.
  • Stir and heat through.
  • Remove from the heat and stir in milk or yoghurt.
  • Whisk with an electric beater until fluffy.
  • Transfer to a small glass dish and refrigerate till set.

Another idea is to make milk or yoghurt iceblocks on a plastic baby spoon.

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Parents Testimonies and Comments

Alison’s comments

Our parenting coach was friendly, approachable, knowledgeable and a good listener.  It was such a help seeing the settling techniques in real life – so much different than reading them in a book.  We now feel confident that we can continue aiming for this routine but know that some days we won’t achieve it but that’s okay too.  Our second baby was diagnosed with reflux at 4 weeks of age. This was a very different experience to our first child and we were confused and exhausted. Our coach provided valuable practical help, advice and guidance to put us on track with dealing with a reflux baby. Our little boy is now far happier and so are Mum and Dad.

Tania’s story

Adopting Cradle 2 Kindy’s routine around feeding and sleeping brought us instant and spectacular results.  As first time parents it was extremely reassuring to see the routine suited both us and our baby.  It brought order to what had felt like chaos and on many occasions we needed to wake our baby for his feeds.  Our level of confidence increased greatly as a result of the time we spent with our coach and the tools she gave us.  Our baby is happier and we are most definitely happier parents.

Ray’s comments and story

I found the service given to be of a high standard.  Our coach was punctual and very professional and has a wealth of knowledge and experience. I felt that I learnt a number of things and had the opportunity to brush up on my skills.  I gained vital confidence and knowledge during the visit. 

We were assisted in weaning my 3 month baby girl, something I could not have done without her help.  As well as achieving this I gained both knowledge and confidence with settling my baby which has allowed me to establish very good sleeping and eating routines.  Our parenting coach is very personable and has a good approach with dealing with difficult situations.  I liked her form and practical manner and I am very happy with the outcome of her assistance for the two days she was here.  I wish I had had this contact number when I had my first child- it would have made my life a lot more pleasurable! 

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